I am 19 and I lost my virginity really young. I was 14, and I have never ever liked sex.
I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years, and having sex feels like a chore. I want to enjoy it and I want to WANT to have sex. Is it maybe just my age? Will I like it better when I am older?
2007-10-10 16:38:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Was your first experience bad? Maybe that kinda ruined you on sex OR maybe you just naturally don't enjoy it as much. We all have different hormone levels and some people are going to enjoy it more than others. Don't make it a chore, just have fun with it.
2007-10-10 16:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Katie T 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most normal people like sex, male or female. It sounds to me that your sexual experiences haven't been very pleasurable. It could be that either you really wasn't ready for sex or that your previous partners weren't satisfying you physically and emotionally.
Unlike men, it takes time and lots of work to get a woman to get into the mood. Sadly a lot of men, maybe yours too isn't taking the time properly seduce and set the mood for love. The best thing I can tell you is have sex when you are ready and try to create romantic feelings between you and your partner.
2007-10-10 23:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably just not doing it right. I had the same problem and I thought I did not like sex. Then I met this guy who showed me how sex really should be done now I cant get enough. I was with men who were more into pleasing themselves and they were inexperienced, but once I ran into someone who knew what he was doing and focused on pleasing me I never could go back to the other stuff. It will get better with age and with men who know what they are doing. Get a pro and he will show you what u been missing.
2007-10-10 23:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by tiff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex for a bit. Sex should be fun...the whole suducing part and not knowing how things will end up at the end of the evening. The mood has to be right. If it feels like a chore, stop for a bit.
2007-10-10 23:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by Rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is an adventure to me. There are so many different ways you can enjoy it. Try something that you wouldn't usually do and see if that works(you be in contorl for a change and let your partner reactions arouse you).
2007-10-10 23:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Marquita C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are three reasons why you don't enjoy it:
1. You are the wrong woman for your boyfriend.
2. Your boyfriend is the wrong man for you.
3. You two equally wrong for each other.
Good luck.
2007-10-10 23:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by Luís Santos 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOOK IF YOU REALLY WANT TO LIKE IT...you have to give yourself the stimulus that allows you to like it...
think of it as writing a supermarket novel...describe exactly what you are feeling as you are feeling it...as graphically as you can...NOT to be perverted...but to focus so intensely on the act..that NOTHING gets in your way.
2007-10-10 23:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its over rated realy over rated
why dont u be different? having sex is only giving into animal lusting
2007-10-10 23:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by I stab I Stab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wouldn't know about your feeling until you tell him how you feel about sex. Hope it works !
2007-10-11 00:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is something missing in the relationship.
2007-10-10 23:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋