If you love someone, don't you want to see them happy? If a guy has sex with another woman, and it is only sex, sex for the sake of the physical feeling and without emotional ties, why not be happy that he has had a few minutes of sexual release?
2007-10-10 16:33:55 · 14 answers · asked by Seryan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You outraged people fail to include swingers in your thinking. Swingers enjoy the physical aspect of sex with others and do it without harming their marriage.
Some would say it actually strengthens it. How can those women do it and you outraged women can't? Is there room for sexual pleasure with others in a commited relationship? They would say yes there is. They report that all the distrust and jelousy is gone when they enjoy sex with another partnet with the knowledge and consent of their partner. So why can't that same mindset be applied? All women know that monogamy is almost non existent in males, yet they will divorce a man and ruin their family if he has just one sexual daliance yet has a strong love for his wife. I think women are as flawed as men in their thinking.
2007-10-11 03:37:36 · update #1
because, sex isn't "just sex" for any woman, if you study it, you'll find that's biologically impossible. having sex with a man causes a rush of a hormone to be released in her brain that bonds her to the person she is having sex with. while not all women know this science, all women know how other women feel.
Also, If you love someone, you want to be with them, you do want them happy, even at the cost of yourself, but you want to be with them, and are hurt when they don't love you the same way. a man sleeping with another woman only proves that he doesn't love her. if he loved her, he'd want her. not any other woman. not ever. it's a horrible pain. to love and know you are not loved.
2007-10-10 16:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is irresponsible and jeopardizing all pleasure seekers involved life, and the woman you care for at home alone missing her man (scared). And did you not realize that when you start sleeping around some one could wake up with feelings of love or a baby! It hurts when a female loving her man wakes up at wee hours and he is not home, the only thing open after 2 am is legs. She is laying there crying and questioning God why would he let the man she love treat her this way! Why me, what have I done so bad for him to treat me this way? Think about it!
2007-10-10 16:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Yolanda G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a stupid question I hope your woman will have sex with another man Just sex for Sex
2007-10-10 16:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are serious? Pleeeeeeeeeeezzzz
Because she loves herself.Respects herself.
A relationship is between two people,not every one who comes along.When a 3rd person comes in it isn't a relationship .
Plus that is purely dangerous.
You don't need a relationship.
2007-10-10 16:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by LIFE OBSERVER 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhm...as long as YOU are ok with your woman doing the same thing, then sure...but I bet you're not ok with that. Why not? If it makes her happy it's ok, right? Unless you are ok with her doing it, then you should understand why she would be upset.
2007-10-10 17:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by prekinpdx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is such a bull s***question... working for a private investigator and catching cheating spouse.. ive heard better excuses than that
2007-10-10 17:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by kristen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if a man needs "release" he can get it from his wife or masturbation, so there's *no* excuse.
2007-10-10 16:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by heyu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy and even I think that's a stupid question.
BTW I'm not trying to flame you, I'm just saying.
2007-10-10 16:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Juice 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with lala what a stupid Q. lame
2007-10-10 16:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by Big B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
::rolls eyes::
Let me guess - here we have someone who is trying to justify why he should be able to sleep around without any repercussions?
Grow up.
2007-10-10 17:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋