I really like my best friend. We know eachother so well and we have even cuddled. She's bi but someone teased her about going out with me (we are not) and she said ew. I don't really know if she likes me though because she has also said I was hot before. I haven't really liked other girls like this but I have thought a couple were hot. I've been attracted to boys too, but I like to flit with boys and cuddle/hug girls. I also like to cuddle and hug boys but I never flirt with girls. Me and my best friend are so close its hard not to be in love. Am I bi? And do you think she might like me?
2007-10-10 15:32:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can not be the one to judge but you may be bi leaning towards girls. In the end I think that the answer lies in your heart, and I hope that she can reciprocate the love you might give to her. :3
2007-10-10 15:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by marie_the_kazegal4 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, she might like you. How old are you, though? Before saying anything, think about how you would feel about making out with her, and going even further than that? If it turns you on, you can say you may be bi. If it does not you probably aren't. If you think you are at that point, tell her you want to kiss her to see what it's like to kiss a girl. See how it goes. Just go with it.
2007-10-10 22:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Eagiusti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may be a cuddle whore. ^.^ Don't worry.. I am, too. Cuddling and snuggling is very comforting and makes you feel loved and secure. If you find yourself attracted to both sexes, then it's possible you're bi curious. You may be bi curious with male preference. My advice, and there's no joke or wise crack involved, is to try a same sex encounter and see how you feel about it. If you enjoy it, then you're definitely bi. If you find you're uncomfortable and don't enjoy it, then you're probably not sexually attracted to the same sex so much as you can appreciate their attractive qualities.
2007-10-10 22:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by branwen_morgaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not bi, you just love your friend. That's very common. Don't try and force sexual feelings where they're not. Just love her. We all love our girl friends and we think some women are gorgeous, but that doesn't have to mean sexually. Women admire the way certain women look without any sexual feelings all the time. Accept it and get comfortable with it, but never force it to mean something more.
2007-10-10 22:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your bi then your bi. In this case i don't think your bi because i see girls cuddling/hugging everyday, it's what girls do i guess. So your not bi, unless you want to be bi.
2007-10-10 22:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your probably just bi-curious...which is nothing wrong with that. Your freind probably does like you and said ew to that person because she doesn't want them to think anything of you and her "sleeping together." You both dig each other.
2007-10-10 22:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Still Standing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you are bi? So you want to have sex with other girls? Do you also want to have sex with boys? You know the answer. No need to ask others what "you" want!
2007-10-10 22:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by gdc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may be bi, and ask her, but I would ease into the subject. As a str8 woman, who has had more than one friend be attracted to he, I lost more friends because I did not reciprocate their feelings. It was hard for me, too.
2007-10-10 22:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You very well could be bi if you are turned on by other women. Maybe talk to your friend about your feelings & ask her how she feels about you. Maybe she would be more helpful in giving her insight, because she knows you best.
2007-10-10 22:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by SUZANNA J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you probably know this, but to determine whether you're bi or not you have to figure out who you want to have sex with, not cuddle with.
As far as your friend, just ask her how she feels about you.
2007-10-10 22:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋