Guys/men need your opinion? Do you like your girl to be strong enough so you can lean on her?

Question

And I meant in an emotional/mental sense.

And how would you describe the strength "you" like in a girl?

Answer 1

I would like my girl to be emotionally strong. I have enough problems of my own that I don't need someone else to be strong for. If she needs a shoulder to cry on and she needs me to be strong for her, I can do that. But it can't be to the point that I'm basically having to be strong for the both of us all the time. I don't need someone to lean on because I try and stand on my own with my own emotional needs. It just helps to have someone there who can be mature and understanding about my problems. So... I guess I do like my girl to be strong enough that if ever there was a time for myself to lean on someone... she would be there.

Answer 2

Every guy has his rough times and if he has a special someone in his life, sure, he'd like her to be comforting and be able to lean on her for the hard times. Some guys may be different and may not show it but a little prodding and you may very well uncover his soft side. We tend to try and act tough and be like "It doesn't matter. I don't care what happens." But we really do and it bothers us, but we're so much into the male dominant role and don't wanna appear weak, especially when it comes to emotions.

Answer 3

In this it should be 100% If she cnt give me that then she need to go. Im not going to do all the work and she just sitting around. We need ladys that will say i got this. I cnt do two thing at one time. If i die then what happen to the house the kids. Sex and looking good is not everything. thats just me

Answer 4

no i dont want to lean on her --- i would like her to be strong enough to not need me --- she stays with me because that is where she wants to be ---- best wishes

Answer 5

i dont usually care but if she is like incredibly strong i dont like that i dont know why