ever since we broke up 04' he ignored me for a lil while when he started dating another girl...he noticed him trying to get my attention by doing stupid stuff like pushing people into me ect ..but i still payed him no attention. he got my new cell number off my friend and would call once in a blue moon but i would miss his call and never return them. when i finally answered his call i asked him why after so long does he want to talk and he said b/c we had something specail..then he wouldnt call me for another couple months and continued until last month when we decided to chill together and he said he wanted me back that im different from other girls. only problem we dont have much contact because i moved and he never makes an effort to call me or text me....last time i talked to him was friday, he said he loved me but...wouldnt u call to see how the person u love is doing? whats with this guy?
2007-10-10 13:02:23 · 11 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BOOTY CALL thats all
2007-10-10 13:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The correct question to ask and answer is what is up with you.You can not control what other people do but you can control what you do.You last dated this guy in '04, he went on with his life dating other girls, made contact with you whenever he felt like it (or between gals),and now realizes he loves you and he wants you back.Yet he proves his new found devotion by again not making contact and you wonder what was up with him.If you still like him and want to renew the romance, then just go ahead and then get ready for any new disappointments that comes with it. But if you don't want him , then simply tell him to take his mind games somewhere else and leave you alone. Tell him you don't have time for it and you have a new boyfriend who might not appreciate the contact.By the way, do you have a guy in your life now? if yes, what does he think of your ex and all that is going on now. If no, then find a nice guy you can build a good relationship with.
2007-10-10 20:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl but was compelled to answer. Please, u can do better! What kind of a partner will he make if you can't even depend on him to make an effort to see how u r doing after he says he loves u? Gosh. This is a red flag staring at your face. Don't be so naive and please get on with your life without him. Let him prove his love to u in the *right* way if he wants u. Dont sit by the phone waiting for his call.
2007-10-10 20:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy wants the best of both worlds!!!a steady girl and one on the side!! that's you . He only calls when the other chick is ignoring him . Then he calls you to fill his own emptiness! Don't be drawn in sounds like you have moved on maybe he should.
2007-10-10 20:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by kind 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might actually love you.
Maybe it took the sepearation to make him realize that.
If thats the case, he's not worth it.
Cut his *** off
2007-10-10 20:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
nah he's playing you,
don't waste your time,
im sure he still loves you in his own way,
im sure all us guys still think about our ex's from time to time and wish things were different.,
but they arn't
save your self some heart break.
2007-10-10 20:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by hmmmnz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only loves you... as a booty call... Move on. 2004.... 2007... amost 2008...
2007-10-10 20:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants you as a side piece. Get a clue.
2007-10-10 20:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
hes kinda wierd
2007-10-10 20:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by NEdawgs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
immature. forget him. and move on. i think he is in secure.
2007-10-10 20:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋