I am in love with a guy who is all that i want in a man. The only problem is, is that he is 700 miles away from me. Should I pursue this, or should I stop and look for someone closer to home?
2007-10-10 13:01:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for the gold
2007-10-10 13:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by Gooby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 700 miles away from him is a REALLY hard thing, but if you really think that this is the guy for you, you shouldn't let that stop you b/c if you do, you will always have that 'What If" thought. It can be quite a torture. Trust me!
Long distance relationships are hard, but they are possible and can actually turn out really good!
2007-10-10 13:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by Heartbroken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how grounded you are in your life at present.
Do you have a stable job. Family? Are you in school?
If you have a career where you are free to travel go for it.
But be sure you are able to support yourself on your own. You dont want to go through a costly move and find yourself to broke to get out of a bad relationship.
How long have you known him? You must ask yourself how well you really know a guy 700 miles away.
2007-10-10 13:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you ever be closer together? I had a long distant relationship that didn't work and one that did, it has to be both working together to make it work. You see the first guy cheated on me and the second loved me and wrote me everyday and called. Good luck
2007-10-10 13:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by friend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you intend on moving closer to one another go for it! Long distance relationships never work for long
2007-10-10 13:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by eleroth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 2 are in love move closer together or one of you move closer. If not keep talking and see where it goes, put it in Gods hands and have faith and he will reviel your way.
2007-10-10 13:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by mbrown9722 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not that attached to 'this' man, it'd be easier to look for someone closer home. I mean, why go so far?
2007-10-10 13:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really believe that he is the right guy then go for it. I met my husband online. He was in Georgia. I was in Australia. We have been married for almost three years. What else can I say?
2007-10-10 13:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by pamelaonthego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure he's the man for you then go for it. However get the logistics in place, find a similar job with similar pay, and go from there.
2007-10-10 13:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id look for someone else because he might be fake anyone can say anything when they r not face to face with that person
2007-10-10 13:07:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋