I lost my virginity when i was 15 With a 17 year old. Now 3 years later we are still together and i'm 18.
Do you think that it was a bad idea to have sex at 15 cuz i was young even though i'm still with the person??
2007-10-10 09:46:53 · 20 answers · asked by sammiesam54 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was just curious cuz everyone says you should wait till your older but i was young and i'm happy..
2007-10-10 09:50:29 · update #1
this was mainly just an opinon. I'm 18 uses protection on b.c. no std's no pregnancy.
2007-10-10 09:52:19 · update #2
no cheating and still in love and still have sex yes.
2007-10-10 09:52:53 · update #3
I am 30, my first time I was 13.
I planned it out, who,what when, where,....
I have always been happy with it.. no regrets..
And as long as you're happy, that's all you need, you can't go back...
However, that's not everybody, If you're not ready you shouldn't... even if you're 30....
2007-10-10 09:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are curious by nature so it's natural to want to experiment in all aspects of life. At least you experimented with someone you care about and not just a one night stand or tons of different partners. If you guys stay together than it won't matter because you will not have had that experience with anyone else, hopefully. These days diseases is far more important than most peoples relegious beliefs about premaritial sex.
2007-10-10 16:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i think it is a bit young. even if you are with the same person, you have different experiences. it is good you are together for 3 years. you wonder what if now you are not with him. I feel that you would be regretting. when you have to ask the question, you had an idea that you'd want to wait a little bit.
2007-10-10 16:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex when ever you want its just don't take it to far like a 10 with a 17 or something, you ages have to be close, but the most important thing is to be safe, get tested and use protection, my mom even tells me i can have sex anything just use protection or pay the consequences.
2007-10-10 17:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ichigo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, but primarily for the reason that at 15 you weren't ready for pregnancy, STDs, or any of the other consequences that can come from having sex. You may not be ready for those things now, but hopefully you've matured someone and would be better able to handle them than had they occurred 3 yrs earlier.
Prior to 17 or 18, kids just shouldn't be having sex. Babies having unwanted babies, and young people with incurable diseases like HIV or herpes (from having sex) is even more sad and tragic than when those things happen to adults...
2007-10-10 16:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well it depends on how you felt comfortable.
One thing for sure is that he didnt break up with you after he had sex with you, so that means he cares more about you and your personality, than ur V.gina
I mean you were young but it was true love right?
Hope i helped.
2007-10-10 16:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by Gfreakp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your still with the guy and u have been together for the three years then of course its not wrong that u lost it that young of age.! it would be different if you lost it and then you are not together then maybe you should have thought that but no its not wrong that you did.!
2007-10-10 17:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I do not think that it was wrong no one can tell another person when their hormones should act up,all a person can tell you is to please be careful and practice safe sex. I do think that the person you chose to have sex with was a little to old for you, just thank God that he stuck around.
2007-10-10 16:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by Talithea H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,it's a little late for that,don't you think?Do the two of you still have sex and are you still in love,and are either one of you cheating?
2007-10-10 16:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sizzlin Sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the animal in all of us has to come out sometime.... at least you waited until you were 15 and not 10 or 11....
2007-10-10 16:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋