She wants to go and I'm not sure I feel comfortable with her getting lap dances and such? What should I tell her?
2007-10-10 06:48:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you trust your girlfriend, then I'm sure you have nothing to worry about. If you're concerned, talk to her... tell her that you trust her but you're not too keen on thinking of her getting lap dances from anyone but you. There's no harm in her looking if she doesn't touch.
I don't know if this will bring any comfort to you, but keep in mind that many male strippers are gay, so they would not be sexually attracted to your girlfriend anyway. I don't think you should worry.
2007-10-10 06:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here we go...more people that think going to strip clubs is ok if there is trust. PLEASE! lol This is not, in any way, shape or form a trust issue. This is a respect issue.
Stop all the lame excuses people come up with to justify going to a strip club. Call it what it is. (This goes for both men and women) Why does a woman go out with her friends to a strip show? She wants to see "hot and young" men dance. They want to be turned on. So for women that say "oh we are just going to laugh and have fun, it's not sexual" THEY ARE LYING!! What the woman is saying to her partner is, you don't excite me as much anymore, I wanna see some strange guys naked. Tell me I'm wrong! That's what it is. Again, it's the same for men.
What should you tell her? Well for one, be honest. Tell her it makes you terribly uncomfortable and you wish she wouldn't go. Do NOT tell her she can't go or forbid her. She isn't your property or your slave. You have every right on Earth to express your feelings.
Bottom line is talk to each other. Hopefully, she will come to her senses and the two of you can go out and have a great night together.
No harm in looking? I'd love to see the faces of all the women that say that if when they walk down the street or the beach with their man...if their man started ogling women and hootin and hollerin at em like women do at strip clubs. Would you like your man doin that? I didn't think so.
Also, don't think you are wrong for not wanting your g/f to get lap dances. How can any self respecting woman with a husband, fiance' or b/f think it's ok to have some strange naked or nearly naked man rub all over them and dance? This is wrong on so many levels.
2007-10-11 04:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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She wants to go and I'm not sure I feel comfortable with her getting lap dances and such? What should I tell her?
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I'm not a strip club kind of guy and think it's pretty pointless, but if my girl was going out with the girls for a rare CnD night I'd think it was silly, but I wouldn't be threatened.
You tell her how you feel, though. Ask her not to touch ;)
2007-10-10 06:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Emperor T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her go, you will be showing your trust, she will repay you in countless ways....
Would you leave your girlfriend for a lap dancing, pole dancer at a strip club ? Probably not.
She will not leave you for a lap dancing boy toy either, but will deeply appreciate your trust in her judgement ...
2007-10-10 06:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by TommyBoy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I were you, I would ask her how she would feel if you were going to a strip club. If she said she did not care, then I would call up my boys and go on the same night as she goes. It is only fair.
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