my husband went on vacation for two weeks without me or the kids we have a sick son and we both work we have a high mortage and my son was sick when he left I asked him not to go my son ended up in the hospital and my daughter had to go stay with my mom. I missed 2 weeks of work with no pay. While he is gone I can't go to school and I must be late for work every day because my son gets on the school bus at 8:25am and I have to be at work at 8:30am everyday. I work 20 mins from my home. I have never been on vacation with out my kids he has gone for the last 3 years with out out any of us?? Should I be mad and I did not take him to the aipport. Should I pick him up?
2007-10-10 06:46:03 · 22 answers · asked by Monica S 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Firstly, you could be dropping off your son at the school earlier, leaving you enough time to get to work by 8:30.
Second, any husband that takes all his vacations without his family is definitely living a separate life from his wife. Sounds like you're getting the short end of the stick, and on your next opportunity, I'd take a vacation if I were you.
Third, why pick him up? There are other ways to get back home, like, walking.
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2007-10-10 06:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by twowords 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't and I would tell him flat out that if he wants his "own" time for his personal reasons then he can find his "own" ride during his 'personal' time. If you have the time at work and the extra cash, you should take a day or weekend to YOURSELF. Also you should let your husband know that this isn't right and that this needs to be his last vacation alone or else. Sounds to me like his interests are in the best place. I feel sorry for you and your kids. His immaturity is risking allot for you and your family, and he needs to be made of aware of this, I'm sure he is, but if he doesn't care then you need to make him, or make him leave. Good Luck Sweetie, and I wish the best of luck to your children, especially the child that is sick.
2007-10-10 06:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is a JERK!! You should be LIVID!! I am livid and he is not even my husband!
If my husband ever did that-he would find the locks on the doors changed or I would move across country to my family in CA. I would tell him that you have to get counseling to see what is going on. I hate to say this-but could he be cheating on you? A friend of mine just went through this and she kicked her husband out after 15 years. I am going to give my 6 day a week hard working faithful God fearing husband a big kiss when he gets home today.
Good luck-and God Bless honey-I am SO sorry!
Karen
2007-10-13 02:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by stayathomemami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will be mad because i was not able to go to work and you both (PARENTS) are in it together so don't leave it all up to me make some can of arrangement for me with help some one close a good friend are family member can sit with the child for no later then 30 min till the bus come.why he got to the airport that's how he will get back.IT'S not about him it's his sick child and his wife. If he want to go on trips make sure his home is in order and it was not.
2007-10-11 06:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by tamvon2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see from the pictures that I am the first man to answer this question.
I would be incredibly mad if I were you. I cannot imagine going on vacation without my wife and kids. They mean everything to me. I want to have fun with them, not with other people and then tell my family about it.
I don't want to speculate on what he was doing or whom he was doing it with, but going on separate vacations, especially when you are young people, sounds odd to me.
My opinion, as a man, is that he should be more responsible, not only towards you, but towards his children.
2007-10-10 07:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by cjtorresg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what was this vacation about? how long has it been planned? hve you been against it the whole time? I go see my parents accross the country pretty often without my husband but with the kids... he needs to work and it never really bothers him. Where is the support from your husband if you have been against it.. the second my husband objects about something like this is the moment I decide not to leave.. Sounds wierd to me
2007-10-10 06:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mommyof3 BGB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm your first ?? should be if he isnt on vacation with you...who is he taking on vacation? And if he is so heartless that he would not even stay home with a sick child...not only would I leave his *** at the airport...I'd pack his things so he can leave when he gets home. Sounds like your doing a great job on your own.
2007-10-10 06:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Doh Doh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be furious! What is he doing taking a separate vacation? You guys need to have a serious talk and possibly even counseling it sounds like there are some issues that need to be addressed. I'm sorry.
2007-10-10 07:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by lahockeyg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not make any sense~ why would your husband go on vacation for two weeks without you & the kids and without your approval. Yes, you should be very mad.
2007-10-10 06:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by Proud mother! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if really doesnt care that much on staying home knowning that one of your kids are sick and you have to take the time off from work because your child ended up in the hosptail and you ask him not to go then if i was you i wouldnt have anything to do with him and i wouldnt go pick him up from the airport i would pack his things all up and put them in the shed and stay away from him he must care more about himself then he does for you and the kids
2007-10-10 06:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie196727 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋