She is kind to my kids and wife (her daughter) but she flirts with me when they're not around. She is divorced. She is also attractive for her age. Suggestions?
2007-10-10 05:32:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ignore it, she probably just needs some extra attention. Set her up with someone.
2007-10-10 05:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by corryglory 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get big headed about the fact your attractive mother in law flirts with you. She more than likely flirts with all men, not just you.
My suggestion to you for this situation is very simple: do not encourage her and always remember that she is your MOTHER in law, and you are her SON in law. By marriage, you are Mother and Son. Any romantic relationship between you would be disasterous. Treat her as you would your own mother, and hopefully she will begin to treat you as her own son.
2007-10-10 12:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by tracy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh you are married! Are you afraid you may act on her advances? B/C that is what it sounds like. If you love your wife you won't cheat on her. Maybe the next time you are alone with mom and she is flirting you could just kindly let her know that it makes you uncomfortable. That she is like a mother to you and it is inappropriate for her to treat you in such a way.
2007-10-10 12:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid being alone with her. this can only cause problems. i think it is shady on her part you are her daughters husband not just some guy. Make it super clear super clear that you love your wife make up some story about your friend that cheated on his wife and say I could never maybe she will get the hint
2007-10-10 12:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kristi S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray and avoid her like Cancer! She'll either take the chance with you if she gets it, or if you reject her she might tell her daughter that it was vice/versa. It's a lose/lose situation for you. Tell your wife that you are uncomfortable with her mom. Be absolutely honest with her even if she gets pissed and defensive, she can't say you didn't warn her. And she won't have to ask later why you never want to be around her mom anymore.
2007-10-10 12:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN RUN RUN.. Keep it at flirting.. worst thing in the world you could do is come between a mother and daughter. There is no question here just be smart and think with your brain.. not with whats below your belt..
2007-10-10 12:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by neicygreeneyes2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does her daughter knows this? a big mess waiting to happen!!! just stay away, and do as little as possible with her,around family and she really not all there in head for her to behaving like this with her own daughter's husband,, she is crazy... well just mind your own business
2007-10-14 09:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by atsinrocpalms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't chime in on her jokes or just ignore her flirtacious behavior. It seems as though she is looking for attention. If I were you I wouldn't even be around her if your wife and children aren't there. Last thing you want is your wife to think your interested in her mother. Good luck.
2007-10-10 12:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good!!! but its really a serious kind of problem.Do one thing tell to your wife(her daughter) when you r both in very good mood or when u were feeling very loving sight for each other take her in your confidence and tell her whole thing wats is happing around you.She will provide you good solution
2007-10-10 12:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by MS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her that her bahavior is making you uncomfortable, and that she's stepping over the line. You don't need to be mean about it, but let her know (privately) that this "flirting" cannot continue. Do not tell her you think she's attractive, that will only fuel her fire. Just be kind, but point blank.
2007-10-10 12:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by Squirrley Temple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How flirty is the situation? If you're feeling uncomfortable ask her to stop it and if she doesn't....Tell your wife!!! I would want my husband to tell me about it.
If you are feeling good about her flirting with you, I feel sorry for your wife...
2007-10-10 12:45:57 · answer #11 · answered by The Fox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋