i love my boyfriend with half my heart. i love my best friend with ALL my heart! of coarse, neither of the two know. but ulysses(my best friend) is the man of my dreams. he is my twin mentally. its crazy, i never smile as much as i do with him. we both do the same things unintentionally and when we call eachother to talk about it... its liek deja vu! i have felt like this since i met him in 7th grade and even told him one time... kinda... alright, he asked if i ever liked him in the past and i said yes. i never said i still do though! *sigh. i wish i did right then and there! its just so hard. sometimes he says he has a big secret to tell me and my heart tells me he is going to confess his love for me... but then he tells me he is gay, he gave oral sex, or something crazy like that. i want to cry every time! every girlfriend he introduces me to are my sworn enemies! lol. i havent met any of his boyfriends though... grrr! lol. what should i do!
2007-10-10 05:32:07 · 7 answers · asked by Yetta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE IS BI! I love my boyfriend with half my heart. i love my best friend with ALL my heart! of coarse, neither of the two know. but ulysses(my best friend) is the man of my dreams. he is my twin mentally. its crazy, i never smile as much as i do with him. we both do the same things unintentionally and when we call eachother to talk about it... its liek deja vu! i have felt like this since i met him in 7th grade and even told him one time... kinda... alright, he asked if i ever liked him in the past and i said yes. i never said i still do though! *sigh. i wish i did right then and there! its just so hard. sometimes he says he has a big secret to tell me and my heart tells me he is going to confess his love for me... but then he tells me he is gay, he gave oral sex, or something crazy like that. i want to cry every time! every girlfriend he introduces me to are my sworn enemies! lol. i havent met any of his boyfriends though... grrr! lol. what should i do!
2007-10-10 07:54:23 · update #1
HE IS BI!
2007-10-10 07:54:44 · update #2
I believe the best thing you can do is to be honest about your best friend about your feelings and see if he has feelings for you too and see where that goes from there and wherever your emotions take you then be fair to your boyfriend as well. If you are really sure that this is the man of your dreams then go for it, its not right letting your boyfriend live a false life with him thinking he is the man of your dreams. Remember whatever decision you make, someone is going to get hurt more likely its your boyfriend or you.
But I suggest you think this through as your decision is going to affect a lot of lives most especially yours. Take some time away from the both of them. A month or two to clear your head. Find out if this is what you really want in life.
Note though, if your best friend has introduced you to a lot of his girlfriends dont you think he is playing the field. He could hurt you. Think about it.
2007-10-10 05:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A letter explaining lots of the stable circumstances u had at the same time, (believe me, those issues continually brings tears of delight whilst examine later), and how a pair of home made bracelet, or ring or jewelry or something... And whilst a bff supplies something in uncomplicated terms for u, whether that's a decrease priced pen, its worth... :D additionally between the biggest present to her would be ur DUA, so don't experience too unhappy sis, i think of ur chum will come on line often, as quickly as she's there, deliver her off with a grin... :) Salaam...!
2016-10-08 23:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by clam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! My heart goes out for you that is possibly the worst situation I could think of. If he really is all gay well then go with your boyfriend because your bestfriend cant change his orientation. However if there is a chance you have to go for it because if you have loved him since the 7th grade then its better to get it over with. Your heart can take only so much.
2007-10-10 05:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by dreamer101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to know too. Is your friend bi? Or is that a joke?
Look at my questions, they have all been about my friend that I love... It may help, but I don't think you can answer many, lots are
resolved. My situation is similar to yours, Ithink, only I dont have a boyfriend, and he hasn't got a girlfriend.
2007-10-10 05:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Poppy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow falling for a gay/bi man not to uncommon actually you should tell him how you feel or try to move on cause you’ll keep hurting yourself if you don’t say anything.
2007-10-10 05:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by Spike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does everyone on here think their best friend can't be their lover?
That's how I choose mine, Friends, then lovers...
Dump the BF that you're really not interested in, and go for it...
2007-10-10 05:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weird ,if hes gay theres no hope for more then friendship im afraid ,one solution is to sleep with him to find out ;)
2007-10-10 05:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by ahvillian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋