So I had a dream that I basically fell in love with my friend's boyfriend. I feel terrible! And it was only a dream! My friend, she is such a sweet and perfect girl and we are really close... I feel like I betrayed her because of my dream! It's so weird.. Her boyfriend, I have always thought he was cute but absolutely nothing beyond that. I am actually quite good friends with him as well.
But in my dream... Even though I felt bad about taking her boyfriend away from here.. I liked being kissed by him. I felt so happy in my dream.
I had a similar dream about a month or so ago.. Where I kissed a boy that I had a crush on but I no longer like him.
If it makes any difference, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me in June... It was my first serious relationship and I'm still not over it..
None of this makes sense to me!
2007-10-10 01:59:28 · 5 answers · asked by ticklememay0 4 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
dreams can mean lots of different things. On the surface it appears as tho you may have some feelings for your friends BF but you are repressing those feelings because you don't want to hurt your friend. On the other hand, perhaps you would like to be in a relationship and this guy was just representing the type of guy you like to be with. Either way its only dream so you should not feel bad. We can't control our dreams and dreams don't always have to have some deep meaning. sometimes they do and sometimes they don't
2007-10-10 02:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by smokeydeath2004 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had the exact same dream about my best-friend's boyfriend, as well. In reality, I have absolutely no feelings for him at all. I analyzed my own dream and I think what I came up with is a good answer for your question. I desired to have the same bond and closeness that she and her boyfriend had. At the time of my dream, I didn't have a boyfriend. Deep inside myself, I longed to find someone to have a real and meaningful relationship with. My best-friend and her boyfriend have such a great relationship and are so in love. I think when I dreamed, I put myself in her place because I wanted desperately to have that closeness with someone myself.
2007-10-16 08:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know exactly what this dream means, but I have had one like it. My best friend had this boyfriend that I had no (at least I didn't think I did) feelings for. He was attractive, and fun to hang with, but hey I had my own man.
I dreamt me and him did the, well you know, and didn't tell my friend. At the time in my dream though, the two weren't dating. I felt so guilty about this dream because I knew how much she loved him. I swear, I am not the cheating type, and although her bf sort of is, I would never consider him as an available man. I love my friend and still haven't told her my dream, for her sake and mine! It doesn't make sense still, so you just have to store it in the back of your mind and move on.
2007-10-10 02:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jaimee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dream probably indicates that you miss being involved with a guy and you miss having attention and affection directed towards you.
The 2 guys you dreamed about probably have some qualities that you admire, but don't put more into it than that.
It makes perfect sense to me, in light of what you said about your ex-boyfriend. You said you felt so happy in your dream - you are allowing yourself to feel adored and admired in your dream life, because you feel you are not getting that in your waking life.
2007-10-10 05:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by Theresa 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're longing for a intimate relationship with someone and want what your friend has with her boyfriend. It's o.k. and only natural. The fact that you dreamed of your friends' b/f doesn't mean you want him; it means you want what they have.
2007-10-15 07:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by Lover of Blue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋