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I always think that i am right. But within very short time i find myself as wrong man. When i think something it seems to me a very good idea. just after few days later it seems to me a very bad and stupid idea.
Age: 25
My mother and sister are mad allready.

but i have full sense.
Now what can i do?
Example: I am trying to find one of my classmate. But i don't know where she is? I want to see her again. so i want to give ad. on newspaper and tv. Lost going to lost my very hard money.

Example: our national team always defeted by the other country and vey poorly. so i always set plan for a new team. and want to make a team. but i have know ability to make team.

2007-10-10 00:43:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

11 answers

seems you're trying hard to do things which are hard to achieve, and you do not get results so doubt yourself.
try asking other people how best to achieve something, eg your friend. you can find people by approaching eg her school, maybe they know where she went after? etc, look on facebook, try friends reunited. don't give up.
I doubt your mad, who told you that?
as for the national team, have you heard of fantasy football? someone made a huge anount of money creating pretend teams - sounds like you're pretty cool - keep it up!

2007-10-10 00:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by juology 4 · 1 0

It seems to me with the brief and somewhat confusing descriptions of your ideas that you act on impulse you don't give yourself time to think your "ideas" through. Yea we all have what we think are great ideas at times and then later realize what the heck was I thinking. I also imagine due to some to these masterpieces you come up with that your mom and sister have to deal with some of the ramifications that might also come down the pipe afterwards. Such as you need to borrow money because you spent it all on a TV spot or you need a shoulder to cry on because your team is mad at you for going off and trying to start a new team. You get my drift. They probably can see that alot of these problems can be solved with just a little forethought and they are probably also tired of dealing with your mess. They because of that family love don't have the heart to tell you this. So to sum it all up NO you are not always right nobody is, you need to take responsibility for your own actions when you are not and stop involving your mom and sis, and also think before you act that should solve alot of your problems. Good luck to you.

2007-10-10 00:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Darkchild 4 · 0 0

Sounds like you need to stop trying so hard. It's ok not to be right all the time. Just ask mom and sis.

Try thinking about it for a few days before doing something about it. Then you'll know it's a stupid idea without going through with it.

Stop wasting money. If you see your old classmate, you see her.

You can't control the world.

2007-10-10 00:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 0 0

It doesn't sound like a terrible idea to find someone. But, there are costs involved to doing this and perhaps other issues. Give it a few days to think about it before making your move. If you decide it still makes sense for you then do it.

2007-10-10 01:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0 0

You are only 25 and you are totally confused. What will you do when you are old and your brain cells detoriate with age and time and so will your body. Get a grip of life and keep a strong mind, also read books and improve your english and keep busy.

2007-10-10 00:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I find that it helps to think through problems first thing in the morning while still lying in bed. Give it a try - your brain is at it's freshest during that time of day.

2007-10-10 00:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by Abmis 3 · 0 0

Chill and wait three days after you 'decide' anything.

If in three days it still seams like a good idea then try it out.

Or come play elysium with me and my friends cuz we always love new members
have a good day lol
Nicole

2007-10-10 00:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by FawneMine 3 · 0 0

You arent wrong to think that you are right, but you are right to know that you are wrong.

No idea is stupid, no dream is stupid, you just need to work for anything you want to archive. thats the key.

Hard work pays off in the end. if not just for you self-esteem

2007-10-10 00:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan A 3 · 2 0

who doesnt think they are right all the time??? Its perfectly normal!!!! Dont stress yourself.. but before you act on anything.. take a few (in ur case days) and then act upon it!!!

2007-10-10 00:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by PrInCeSs 2 · 0 0

Well, I don't think you're wrong in either example.

2007-10-10 00:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by ღஜღ Øŧåķų Ťŵĩŋş Åŧ Ħęåŗŧ ღஜღ 5 · 1 0

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