we have been going out for 10 months and my boyfriend wants oral? is it bad if i give it to him?
2007-10-05 21:15:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
absolutely NOOOOOOOOOOO
2007-10-06 06:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by getting_bored 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you just answered my question. So I'll do the favor and answer yours. Don't do it if you don't want too. By that, if you don't what to do that then don't put yourself in the situation where that can happen. I should be listening to my own advice. I'm in the same situation, however, my bf wants to give me oral. I've been going back and forth in my mind about it. I don't know what to do. I hope this helps. Don't feel pressured. Good luck.
2007-10-07 15:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question YOU have to ask YOURself is.......
can you still sleep soundly at night knowing you DID do this (giving in) ??
would you sleep better knowing you didn't ??
Your inner conscience I mean........
Remember, it's your body.
There is NO RULE written anywhere that says people have to "do anything". IF they say so, thats a load of horse cookies, and you know it.
Do what is right for YOU, don't be like everyone else.
Be the trend starter..... NOT the trend follower.
That is how people create change & make the world better from what it was or is. You can be that person that starts the whole thing in motion, it has to start somewhere.
2007-10-06 04:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by ccchevydude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your choice...but you should know whether he likes you because of sex, or not. Because if you give it to him..again...and again...and again...and you recieve nothing in turn...than you made a bad choice..
I personally wouldn't prefer oral..well I would give it to my girlfriend if she wanted to...but I think if a woman gives it to guy...that's a kind of sign of submission? You don't have to lower yourself if you don't want to. Of course if he's pushy you know you should move on, or talk to him about this..he can wait if he really wants you...
2007-10-06 04:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bazsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only bad if you don't want to! There is nothing intrinsically wrong with giving him a ********. It is very pleasurable can be part of more exciting foreplay. Make sure he reciprocates and goes down on you though - that's only fair. Don't let him blow off in your mouth though - that is so demeaning.
2007-10-06 04:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by cobra 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is bad if you let your upbringing come into your head. it is bad if you are a christian. it is bad if you tell everybody you just gave bo-bo. but most important of all, it is bad if you dont want to do it in the first place but you do it to please him. wait til you are ready both physically and mentally.
2007-10-06 04:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends how he asked you really...
actually, no, you dont really ask people... =/
if you feel uncomfortable, dont do it.
your feelings are what matters the most here, not his.
if he truly loved you he wouldn't force or be upset with you for not doing it.
2007-10-06 04:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by poetic tragedy. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not in the slightest bit bad, it is wonderful. Makes sure he returns the favour, though!
2007-10-06 04:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by thingfishy 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes give it to him and make sure you do a good job.
ps by doing it once you are commiting to doing it more... if that makes sence
2007-10-06 04:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by yeh yeh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not any better or worse than having sex. Don't let him pressure you though, you shouldn't do anything until its completely your idea.
2007-10-06 04:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? sexual relations even if its oral is totally not for kids...
2007-10-06 04:21:36 · answer #11 · answered by rainydays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋