2007-10-05 21:08:11 · 15 answers · asked by patricia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No girl can convince her husband about her virginiy. There arises no necessity for that, first of all. If he presses on it then it is clear that he is 'cave man'. Virginity is no more a icon for woman. It has lost its significance long before. One can even say it has died. As one of the friends pointed out earlier, how can a girl identify whether her husband is pure or not? As long as this question cannot be answered, no question regarding girl's virginity can withstand.
Moreover, no husbands' (who are realist) will not expect their wives to be virgin. Virginity plays no important role in married life anymore. Understanding is only required to have a long and happy life....... This mental strength is enough for a happy life not the virginity.
2007-10-05 21:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Shinoj Kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. Convince him of what? Convince him she is a virgin, or not a virgin? Convince him that she is a woman, or a girl? Why don't you just convince him you are a honey baked ham?
2007-10-06 04:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to convince your husband to marry a non virgin, so that he does not disturb you at night and you can have a good night's sleep?
Oh, Darling, only if I got that tip twenty years back. I could have slept peacefully at night.
2007-10-06 04:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What people have said is sound advice but what they fail to understand is in some Country's marriage is different from the boy meets girl and they have been with others before and understand and love each other in Some Country's it can lead to be killed in a so call "Honor killing"!
Honey good luck!
2007-10-06 04:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sazzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince him what? To marry a non virgin? If that is all he is interested in then he is small minded and probably wont make for a nice husband.
So forget him and find a nicer man. Virginity is over rated anyways.
2007-10-06 04:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It all comes down to trust & honesty. That's truly what makes a marriage work--without those elements you're doomed from the start. Husband should believe (trust) her and she SHOULD be honest always!
2007-10-06 09:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the last answera and another thing; if he needs any convincing at all, he's not the right one. It shouldn't matter at all.
2007-10-06 04:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by Emily W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relations end here? do the girls get information whether husband is all pure?Its quite insulting!
2007-10-06 04:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by suhana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first let him convince you that he too is a virgin.... if he is having doubts, its a shame on him.... ask him not to talk non-sense...
2007-10-06 04:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think now a days virginity is not really important. if he truly love hes wife he should accept his wife whoever she is.and do not think of that thing because it is not important to a relationship. as long as you love each other you should not think of his past or his nothingness.
2007-10-06 04:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋