I dont know why my bf is so moody during the week. he says hes always tired bcoz of work. we dont meet only on tuesdays and thursdays. yesterday he said that were meeting to much and he dsnt have free time for his friends, his video game, for his car etc (which its not true) bcoz we only meet up like 1 hr during the week. he said we can meet only on weekends. then when weekend comes his mood changes and all of a sudden he wants to be with me. i cannot understand him. sometimes i feel happy and sometimes i feel lost. i know im sounding childish but i love him so much!!!
2007-10-05 20:42:27 · 8 answers · asked by babyandme 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also think you need to be more independent and not such a "clinging vine." You need to take on more outside interests that doesn't involve him. That lets him off the hook of having to "baby" you or indulge you so much. Believe me hon, he'll find you much more refreshing if you began to take an interest in other things besides him. However, I'm not saying he'll become fascinated with the new you, but he will definitely appreciate you more, if he actually does care for you. (some of us are a little skeptical about that.) Don't tell him that you're contemplating a "make-over," let him find it out on his own.
The next time you start a relationship hon, start out from the very begining..... and let the guy know that you have a life; you are an exciting woman.
2007-10-05 20:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
on the weekend he has more timee to show you his love and do the things he really wants to do with you, like an hour isnt enough time who want to know that you only have an hour to show some love then end, its just better this way.
2007-10-05 20:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by DancingInTheMoonlight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He might have someone on the side it seems. If he can't give you what you want then there is no point in being with him. Who would choose friends, video games and his car over his girlfriend? A jerk, that's who.
2007-10-05 20:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by Marius , II 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend is a confused guy. This is just my opinion, but maybe you should find a guy who dosen't get moody and you can share a better life with.
2007-10-05 20:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just scared that things are getting too serious. He doesn't want to look like a ***** by wanting to spend so much time with you. He does want to hang out with you, but he also wants to look good to his friends.
2007-10-05 20:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by rend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scared of committment
2007-10-05 20:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by jimmy_00r0pq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he only wants you when he wants you, he isn't concerned about your needs or desires, gonna be a long relationship if ya stick it out.
2007-10-05 20:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by scorch_22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he obviouslycontrols you too much. you need to stop being so obedient and get things back to being mutual
2007-10-05 20:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by thinKdffrN 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋