i was raised in a christian school, and although i fight religion very hard, i have high morals and a bad *** conscience that hunts me whenever i do something bad.
anyways i was into porn until this afternoon when i was having a convo with a friend and anyways something i said really got to me. i mean whenever i look at porn i feel guilty cuz part of me knows its wrong so today i began erasing all the porn with not so pretty models, but it felt good so then i began erasing all the pics. i got rid of all except 88, but now im feeling guilty about having erased them cuz i think if i erase them it means im gay.
i mean, american society (in my opinion) says "all guys are into porn, or else they're gay"...so then i think, well geez if i stop lookin at porn it means im not man enough.
idk, what do u think?
2007-10-05 19:08:21 · 14 answers · asked by aruel100 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
PS: some female opinions would be cool to think if u gals really think what i think (all men are into porn, else they're gay)
2007-10-05 19:10:22 · update #1
to the guy who said i have "identity problems",
two words: **** YOU
i love women. well...i dont love them all, but i loved my girlfriend very much when we were together and i can tell u i aint gay or even thinking about the possibility of turning gay. ****, if ever the thought of turning gay comes into my mind, ill gladly take my life in an honorable fashion (i wont go into more detail cuz i dun wanna sound like a homophobic)
but again, i got just two words for you: **** you; just cuz ur gay doesnt mean everyone else is thinking about being so.
2007-10-05 19:24:03 · update #2
I want to apologize if my previous comment offended anyone, but I am not from here (the US) and although Im young (18), I am old fashioned and was raised in a culture where being gay was out of the question. So again, I apologize if the way I was raised led me to say things that offended you.
2007-10-05 19:33:59 · update #3
You aren't gay if you don't look at porn. You're just a better man. Think of it this way...if you are with a woman who you love with all your heart and you make love to her every night, would you want those pornographic images of other women floating around in your head? Wouldn't you rather enjoy the moment with the woman who you are being intimate with and share the moment completely with her? Don't think that just because you erased the porn that makes you gay...that is stereotyping and its all baloney. You even said you have high morals and a conscience...use that to your favor and do the things that you feel good about...not something that is going to make you guilt ridden and angry. A real man doesn't need porn...because if he is a real man then he is spending time with his wife and family, doing good in the community, holds a respected position in society and counts his blessings everyday. Hold your head high and be proud of who you are. No one is going to rate your masculinity on how many porno pics you have on your computer or how many subscriptions you have to porn mags. I can think of a million other things to be proud of, and those 2 things aren't even on the list.
2007-10-05 19:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by SoAZ Gal 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-17 00:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this question.
The 'gay' thing is an excuse so you can save the rest of your porn collection, and salve your conscience by saying 'oh but I won't be masculine unless I look at porn'.
You know that's just rubbish, and that your first instinct, to destroy the porn, was correct.
Happy erasing :-)
2007-10-05 22:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by thing55000 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Staying away from porn doesn't mean your gay. On the contrary, I think it takes a stronger man to control his sexual desires. Porn is a horrible filth that has ruined many aspects of society. Yeah, some may see it as a harmless practice of personal lust, but in reality it eats away at us inside every time we get involved with it. But if we continue to chase it, the harder it is to break and then we want to feed it more and more. If a person involved doesn't stop asap, they are in danger of going to extreme lengths in fulfilling sexual desires. Rapists, child molesters, and sex offenders didn't become what they were in one day. In most cases it started with porn.
Take care of it now, before there are major consequences. Wait for God and stay pure. Girls will respect you a whole lot more.
2007-10-05 19:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the transsexual guy or woman seems and looks like a woman then manage them as such. whether they have been a guy, they desire to be a woman now, so i'd say in the event that they have been dating yet another female it would be a lesbian dating. i'm additionally unsure how quickly adult males seem at female she adult males yet i don't think of quickly females want masculine females in any way.
2016-10-21 05:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman who Loves Sex and I want you to know that I think porn makes men less masculine, and definitely less able to perform magnificently in real life.
Now the catch is, that nobody but your lover and God will know if you decide to be Outstanding and put all your energy into her instead of unreal things. So ultimately the question is: How important is your lover? and God? and your personal excellence "in bed"?
2007-10-05 19:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Religion is not the answer, God is the answer. There IS a difference, and that conscience is God telling you something is wrong. You SHOULD delete the porn and you should get back with God. This is your choice obviously, no one can make it for you.
2007-10-05 19:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Caleb C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already have a identity crisis. And having porn or not having porn isn't gonna help. You might need to talk with someone.
2007-10-05 19:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by truckercub1275 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the fork? not looking at porn doesn't make a guy gay, that makes a guy not some disgusting pervert.
if anything, having the willpower to resist looking at such things would make a guy even /more/ masculine, in my mind.
2007-10-05 19:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by { h o l l o w } 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion as a girl... I think just because you don't do that doesn't mean your GAY. Your just... Honest I guess... That's so retarded saying that your gay just cause... Erase it.
Besides, THEY'RE the ones that'll get dumped if their girlfriend finds out. *shrugs*
2007-10-05 19:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋