Lets just say that they talk to themselves when they are alone and only alone and hide this from everyone they know but somehow you caught them in the act and they don't know it.
Would your views on this person change?
What would you do?
2007-10-05 19:04:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
My views of this person would not change. Life can be though and unpredictable at times. Some things may affect a person adversely thus contributing to mental breakdown. Believe me; none of us are immune to emotional breakdown. It can happen to anyone.
If it were someone I knew. I would provide compassion and understanding. Find a way to discuss your concern. Ask them what's going on in their lives. But you must be very diplomatic and cautious because most people would never admit to having emotional problems. It's something people are not comfortable with because of the stigma attached to mental illness. First you need to make sure the person is comfortable enough with you and they also trust you. It's a very delicate issue; one that might jeopardize a friendship.
But, it's how you handle it. Let the person know that you're there for them and you care. Give a big hug. Hugs are good for the soul. If you cannot help them, encourage them to seek professional help. Sometimes, the mind can deteriorate very rapidly. The mere fact that you notice, already shows that you care. I am sure at the end, your kindness will be appreciated.
Good luck!
2007-10-05 19:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by lili dauphin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I came across such a situation with someone I cared for, my views about this person would not change in the idea of caring for them any less. What would change is the way I felt towards them, as in the wonder of what is actually going on with them.
From the moment I were to catch them doing this, it is a must that I asap, find extra time to take them aside to see what is going on. As in talking to them to let them know I am here for them if they ever needed someone to listen, understand, guide, or help them in any way I could. From this conversation, I would know where to take it from there. Every single one of my actions that is related to this situation with this person would be very specific because of the sensitivity that is labeled with these characteristics in people. With their condition being more clear, it would be than that I can help them find exactly what they need, as in professonal help if necassary, a friend they can trust, and encourage courage so they could see for themselves why they are the way they are.
I would be there for them through anything when they would like me to be by their side.
2007-10-06 05:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by white_painted_lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't we all just a little bit crazy. When I'm alone, supposedly, in the garage, I talk to myself so loud that my wife tells me that she can here me in the house. By the way, my garage is separate from my house by about 30 feet. I hold very good conversations with myself I'll have you know.
2007-10-06 02:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with talking to yourself a lil bit. Obviously it can be much worse than just thinking out loud though. If it is, I might have to ask them what the heck they were doin'.
2007-10-06 02:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dethklok 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is truly crazy. Some people just need more understanding then others.
2007-10-06 02:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by punch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with talking to yourself - you'll always have somebody to talk to! Besides, some people like to call it praying ;P
2007-10-06 02:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by nobody important 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to figure out what's going on. If its nothing serious, embrace that side of them as well.
If its something heavy - seek medical attention.
Throughout it all - show concern.
2007-10-06 02:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by D.Chen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd be releived to know that I wans't the only one... Besides, there are only two kinds of people:
Those who are......
and those who say they're not...
2007-10-06 03:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by John Silver 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pretty much expect that.
2007-10-06 03:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by duaneb_59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋