My fiancee wants a beautiful expensive wedding dress. My first 3 wives refuse to make it. Should I buy it or should I insist they make it.
2007-10-05 18:16:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Women! Can't live with em em em em can't live without em em em em.
You'd think they'd be a little more into welcoming the new girl. Of course, if the new girl is asking for a substantially nicer dress than the other three had, you might have a prima donna on your hands.
Just buy the dress. Assuming you actually can force the first 3 to make it, they'll just wind up resenting wife 4.
2007-10-05 19:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Since your wives refuse to make the dress, isn't that a sign that they aren't happy?!?!?
2) If you can't even afford to get her a nice dress, then why do you have 3 wives already?? You shouldn't be getting another wife if you can't even afford a nice dress for her wedding!!
3) Everything you live by is absolutely and completely wrong in my mind. Polygamy is wrong!!! God rules and created Adam and Eve, not Adam, Jill, Susie, Maggie, and Bethany. Read the Bible you idiot!!
4) The other guy was right, leave some women for the other guys!!
5) Think about how having 4 wives could impact your future children ...... psychologically and emotionally.
6) It's all on your conscious.
2007-10-05 18:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly98880 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask the other three to make the dress. Explain to them why it is important. If they still refuse obviously you are going to have problems down the road with your fourth wife entering and being a part of the rest of your family. What is the underlying hostility towards your fourth wife? Do they not like her? Do they have a reason? Find all these things out and correct them now. If they still refuse to make the dress then buy it for your wife. But explain to them why its important that they make it and why all of you get along and become a family together.
2007-10-06 03:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess marrying four or even 100 for that matter is not a big deal.....the actual thing is in maintaining the relationship with your wives in an equal manner....u must be able to satisfy them both physically, emotionally and financially....unless u do that u dont have a right to be marrried to so many....
If your first 3 wives arent happy, you cant force them for sure but discuss with them and make sure that u take care of all your 4 wives equally or else its not good man.....
Hope u understand...!!
2007-10-05 18:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by meer_synergix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised your religion allows you to use the computer, let alone be on the Internet. that said...I think - regardless of whether you choose to spend a lot of cash (cash that could go towards your ever growing family) on a fancy wedding dress OR insist that your other wives (joyfully/reluctantly) create a wedding dress for your newest addition...you are in for some cold shoulder / headache nights. pick your poison. good luck to you.
2007-10-05 18:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, again if this is real and the first three wives aren't willing to help them they probably don't want her in the family as well. They all need to be in agreement that this is the right thing to do or you may end up with nobody in the end. Good luck
2007-10-06 04:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by Melba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decided u should buy it.But listen man if you r marrying for lust then one wife is enough.If you want to support other women due to some reason i.e widow ,poor then you can increase this number to 4.But your point of view shows you want enjoyment that is not good for you and your wives.You will stick to one others will secretly develop relation with other men and made you responsible of illegal children.
2007-10-05 18:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by jaidi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people like you should be put in jail.when will americans stand up and recognize that this nation was founded on the principle of the church.dammit stop being so politically correct and save our country from whackos like this.in the late 1800's to early 1900's this guy wuold have been hung by his own neighbors.
2007-10-05 18:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by t&t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you should definitely insist they make it. I mean you have them locked in the dungeon anyway right? While they're down there they could do the dress, veil, and even undies!Lol
2007-10-06 10:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by valschmal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford to have 4 wifes then you can afford to buy the dress. Stop being cheap.
2007-10-05 18:58:10 · answer #10 · answered by <Carol> 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋