I don't know what to do!!! I'm a good virgin girl (18) but omg I need to see him so bad! i want him to put his hands all over me. i love the feeling of him on top of me kissing my my belly and my thighs and my neck...! what is wrong with me!? I don't want to lose my virginity! and he's not talking to me for who knows what! I haven't seen him for a week! will this feeling go away? cuz its frustrating!
2007-10-05 17:58:03 · 13 answers · asked by Computer Love! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously,the reason hes not communicating with you is that his hormones are raging and your not giving him the fix he needs,but dont frustrate yourself over the situation,its not your fault that hes reacting childishly and selfishly.This is coming from a man computer love,your VIRGINITY is something thats supposed to be sacred,special,pure and you only get to have one them.JUST ask yourself this question,"Am I ready to lose a part of myself that I would never get back,to someone I think is special?"Just take your time love and If he cant respect your mind and keep acting the way he is,you should know what to do.
2007-10-05 18:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by tatudie10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, being a virgin is the very right thing u r thinking about it , if u lose it believe me u will be much much more frustrated than now.
if u r in need for him first, the better way is to try ur best to stop thinking about the sexual things , try it but mean it.
if u cant rub urself good till u get kinda satisfied or have shower or just control urself.
STAY VIRGIN.
good luck.
2007-10-05 18:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not ready to lose your virginity, than dont and good for you for not giving in. when you are ready you will know. in the mean time enjoy time with this guy i assume is your bf. it should make it easier as from what you said, he is not pressuring you to do anyting. personally i am not ready and am 21, so don't feel like you need to rush into anything. As far as your earges, they are normal, as I think you know as you want to have sex with your bf, but you dont want to lose your virginity. As far as not speaking to someone for a week, idk...maybe he went away, maybe he is sick, there are alot possible situations. Don't woory about it until a little more time passes and when you get in touch with him tell him you feel it important to stay in more contact with e/o...good luck
2007-10-05 18:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I said that your very close to losing it keep letting him kiss in those places lol. Take a very cold shower and do anything to stop this line of thought unless want not to be a virgin . Cuz you build it up in your mind till you cant help yourself.
2007-10-05 18:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by . 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The feeling won`t go away until he or some other dude makes the actual penetration and then the relief is only temporary.Thank heavens females experience this frustration because it makes us males` horniness a little easier to reckon with.
2007-10-05 18:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by PILL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 09:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by megna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to stop get him so turned on and then saying "i don't want to lose my virginity!" if he really makes u happy and he loves u he will understand. he will wait until u want to "give" him your virginity. yes, the feeling goes away, but so does your sensitivity to his touch.
2007-10-05 18:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by matt c. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go immediately to the bathroom turn the cold water on in the shower and get in. Stay in until you come to your senses. Get out, dry off and get another hobby.
2007-10-05 18:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
propose him.If he becomes unlucky to leave u...dont worry..U will be rewarded that I can ensure u.Because Allah like them who protect them from sexual relations before marriage.Allah will do ur best.
So propose him.Dont woory about the result.
Pls dont worry and struggle mentally to keep urself virgin till marriage for allah's satisfaction.
U will must be rewarded.
Best wishes from me and salute for ur struggle against sex before marriage.
Take care
2007-10-05 18:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know how old you are but sex is complicated once you start it won't stop so find the right person first. until then get a toy there the best and you won't feel like your missing out on anything. :)
2007-10-05 18:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by shauna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋