Ok i have been trying to get this girl, well i feel cheesy saying this but its the only way for me to explain how is feel, im in love with her. Problem is she already has a boyfriend. But she herself and all of her friends can not stand him. Hell her mom is bribing her to leave him with a car, and a new cellphone. And her current boyfriends mom has been trying to get her to leave him. He is a asshole , he has cheated on her 3 times that she knows of, and is constantly accusing her of it, and being overly jealous of every little thing she does such as hugging one of her friends etc. I have told her i like her and tried everything i can think of to show her how much i care thats is not in the affair area.She has told me that she was going to leave him for me now 4 times!!! But has every time backed out and hurt me. Ive even asked her to leave him once, and hinted a few times but she wont. what should i do. Im sick of it! But i fear missing my chance if i date someone else.
2007-10-05 17:51:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in your exact position my junior year in high school...and if you want advice, GET OUT!!!! If you stay with her, and summer comes and she goes to dallas, and you kiss her friend, cause you and her are going no where, but you two finally date, and she breaks up with you and breaks your heart....just GET OUT!!!
2007-10-05 17:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by chris k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has to find someone or something else to interest her but she may have a lack of self confidence as well. If it is possible, try to do things that you can do with her as a friend to build up her confidence and explain to her mother that may be the problem and that her mother should work on the confidence problem as well. She may even see all men as being the same so that she thinks that if she leaves him and goes with you, that you will turn out to be the same and the only way you can fight that is to be as good a friend as you can and wait for more to develop later on when she does leave him, as she will in time, hopefully
2007-10-06 01:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said >>>>She has told me that she was going to leave him for me now 4 times!!!<<<<<
This girl is not mature. Look for someone else. You can do it. Just keep looking around. Sometimes when anyone, just someone shows the slightest bit of interest in us we think that is the only person we can get. You can get someone else, don't waste yourself on her. There are alot of nice girls looking for boyfriends. Keep your eyes open and ask around if anyone knows any nice girls. The girl you are describing is not for you even if she is gorgeous. She is not mature enough.
2007-10-06 00:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run!She has started a pattern of abusive relationships that will follow her for the rest of her life.You can a part of it or remain apart from it.
Pray that she will find a healthy life and get away!She will only break your heart over and over because you are the nice guy and nice guys come in last place with these types.Trust me.
2007-10-06 00:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand why girls like guys who treat them like **** but for some reason they do. look this girl is hung up on her boyfriend if she know she has a oppertunity to be with someone who will treat her right and she keeps going back to the asshole..... forget about her...... move on.... she will just countinue to hurt you she is not over this guy and even is she did leave him for you you would probibly be just a rebound. move on before you get hurt anymore there are still good woman out there who want a good man. ITS JUST FINDING THEM?
2007-10-06 01:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by shauna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should consider moving on. It kind of sounds like she wants you on the back burner, as a last resort, insurance in case her current relationship falls apart.
2007-10-06 00:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL LET HER KNOW ONE LAST TIME. MAKE HER LISTEN 2 U N TELL HER THAT U R SERIOUS ABOUT HER BUT U R NOT GOING TO WASTE YOUR TIME N CHASE HER AROUND. IF SHE DOESNT WANT TO COOPERATE THEN U WILL HAVE 2 MOVE ON. IF SHE CANT DECIDE LEAVE IT ALONE. IF SHE COMES TO YOU SOON WITHOUT U LOSING FEELINGS FOR HER, THEN SHE IS READY!
2007-10-06 01:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta date someone else... move on. her loss. Even if they broke up she shouldnt hop right into the next relationship it will only fail. Go out and have fun and if its meant o be it will happen. Dont put your life on hold for her.
2007-10-06 00:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, the girl loves misery.
2007-10-06 00:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by Phoebe Finch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well have you thought of reminding her of all the things he has done. And maybe if you flirt with her when he's around he'll get mad and dump her
2007-10-06 00:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋