Do you like them shy or outgoing? Is being too aggressive a turn off. I am kinda out going and aggressive I think I am doing it all wrong?
2007-10-05 17:08:55 · 11 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
outgoing. Shy is ok. But just a little is acceptable. Too much makes me wanna shake her and say wake-up!
2007-10-05 17:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by I'M GONNA GO PLACES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak for myself, but when I meet a woman that is aggressive IE. pushy. I get the impression that she is either a feminist or lesbian. I like to see a woman that is more mid-range. Think about it. Shy women give off the impression that they are insecure. I am not saying that you are doing anything wrong, but if you are of the aggressive type. I would think that there would be way to much drama. Just my opinion.
2007-10-06 00:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by MAD MEL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not doing it wrong you just have to find the right guy. Aggressive can be a big turn on. I like that in a girl.
2007-10-06 00:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by to busy to clean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy is better in my opinion and aggressive is a turn of to some.
2007-10-06 00:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes aggressive it makes me feel safe and i know that she will defend me from other aggressive woman
2007-10-06 01:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not personally a guy, but my husband likes outgoing, assertive women. Just be yourself. You are doing great! The guys you're around just aren't man enough to handle you. When you find the right guy, he will like you as you are, tough, real and sexy.
2007-10-06 00:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would say i like cute,hot,funny,nice,kind,skater,girls.
and yes being aggressive is a turn off and i think i like shy
2007-10-06 00:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by Andy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest niether i like a girl in the middle... more towards the shy side but be able to meet new friends
2007-10-06 00:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both are fine but i prefer shy not because im not man enough but because im shy. it would be foolish to change yourself though. my bro likes outgoing.
2007-10-06 00:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by shadow m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever characteristics you have there will be someone that loves them ---- trouble is finding that someone that likes your characteristics as much ---- best wishes --- i may be attracted to your face BUT its your personality and how well we mesh that keeps me coming back
2007-10-06 00:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋