i was with girl 3 to 4 months we get along so great. she had to see councellor because she was emotional detroyed by her exhusband counsellor said not have a relationship. she aske what is my opion i said i understand what you going through. what should i do wait for her?
2007-10-05 16:53:12 · 7 answers · asked by crazyflip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now im moving to another city. does means that im moving on?
2007-10-05 17:00:18 · update #1
another thing was couseller said that we cant see each other.. i dont knw what to do?
2007-10-05 17:04:04 · update #2
If you truly love her to the bottom of your heart you will wait if not you'll find someone else.
2007-10-05 16:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really care for her, you should. But do you really want to be with someone who might break up with you based on what her counsellor said? I don't think I would ever ask a boyfriend about that kind of thing, it would put him in a very awkward position. But who knows, maybe she was fishing for your take on how far your relationship has progressed rather than anything else, or a proclamation that you couldn't live without her. Sorry, it's hard to give advice with so little to go on. I hope everything works out for you in the end!
2007-10-05 17:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. You should not wait for her. Go on with your life. It doesn't mean that you didn't or don't love her, but waiting for her puts undue pressure on her and right now, she needs to be single and independent in her life in order to grow and find her own strength. Until she has that she will be useless in a relationship with anyone, including you. Knowing that you are "waiting" for her will put pressure on her or make her feel some obligation toward you.
Go on with your life with no expectation of having a relationship with her and giving her the freedom to go on with her life. If you love her, set her free.
There are people who come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. This was one of those seasonal relationships. You took joy from it, you learned from it, you grew from it. And so did she. You will both be better people and better partners for it in your future relationships.
Best wishes!
2007-10-05 17:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her. Because she needs to work through all that emotional baggage before you and her can have a healthy relationship.
2007-10-05 16:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by T H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
see, things like these ya just gotta follow your heart, you just have to ask yourself this, do you love her enough to wait? or would you be able to move on?
2007-10-05 16:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by 88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you someone set it free if they love you they will come back if not they were never yours to being with
2007-10-05 16:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by maraloves 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Duh- if you like her as much as it sounds like you do, wait.
2007-10-05 16:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by Elyse B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋