I am a wife and mother of two (ages 4 and 1). The military will provide LOTS of benefits for our family in general, but my husband can not join because he has bad asthma. My father went to the Air Force Academy and is retired military after 30+ years. I have always had a deep respect/love for the military and wanted to go, but am concerned about time away from my children and husband. As far as qualifications I have already taken my ASVAB and got a 96 so I am eligible for whatever jobs a female can do. Please let me know your opinions, or pro's and con's that you have experienced. Thanks!!!!! (Branch choices are Army or Air Force, dont know which- but I dont like water so Navy and Marines are definitely out)
2007-10-05 12:08:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
Joining the military is a decision that only you and your husband can make. I decided to join so my husband and I are dual military. There are lots of benefits if you take an active role in getting them. Most people in the military have no idea what's avaible to them but if you read literature and keeps your eyes and ears open then you will be harder for you to be cheated. Whatever you sign, make sure you read it in it's entirety. As far as being away from your children, that is a hard decision but if you sacrafice now then they will have a better future. I would not join the Army though. That has to be one of the toughest branches. The key is to pick something that interest you as a job. Don't worry so much about war. There are jobs in the military that don't send you to fight a war. Whatever you decide should be between you and your husband. If you don't enjoy it then you can not re-enlist. No matter what you choose don't base your decision on just being the pioneer for the family because you are the person serving and your mental health is important. Whatever you do, get a degree while you are in so that you'l have a future after the military.
2007-10-05 13:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Alexandria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! I am a soldier in the Army along with my wife. We are both deployed right now in separate countries. When we are both done with our deployments we will have enough money for a down payment for a house and a car. Although life in the military can be tough it still has its benefits. Every ones getting deployed now days, so prepare to be away from your family for long periods of time. I'm in the Army Reserve and this is already my second deployment. Being in the Air Force means shorter deployments which I think would be better for your case. There are so many great stories of men and women who join the military to help their families. Do not let anyone discourage you. If this is something you feel strongly about, you should do it. Im sure your family will be proud of you.
2007-10-05 19:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Best choice you could make, for you, your family, and your father. My personal recommendation would be Army, but that's just because I'm a sergeant in the best branch of the military. We view the Air Force with equal parts disdain and envy, so it really comes down to you.
Although I will say, with a 96, and a mother's touch, you could join the Army as a 68WM6, get your LPN, possibly even RN, and have a lucrative career after you get out. Just sayin...
2007-10-05 19:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what they tell you but they don't tell you all the cons. My cousin is a Navy Seal they were supposed to pay 100% for college but when he got hurt he found out that they were only going to pay 20% My aunt is in the air force. She has been for eight years shes retired uncle sam didn't pay her all her money that they owed her. These are just some things I know about. Don't let this get you down maybe it'll be the opposite for you. I wouldn't join if I were you,you have kids they need more than anyone else. I mean thats just my opinion.
2007-10-05 19:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by ikea t 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When I was in the Army I worked with a female Soldier. She already had 5 children before she enlisted, and she was 36 years old to. So if she can do it any one can. Go Army, of course :)
2007-10-05 19:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Arnold 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered joining the National Guard and staying home? Don't give away your Mommy memories the the Federal Govt. This is the most precious time for you and your children.
2007-10-05 19:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by runner1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The good news is if you go unaccompanied to Iraq its only 4 - 6 months. I think its a good idea if that is what you want to do.
2007-10-05 19:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you insane? if you can tell me our mission and our plan for sucess then i will support you. you got kids and hubby..stay put..dont fight a war for oil....if there wasnt any oil under iraqui sand do u really think we would be there. good luck
2007-10-05 19:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by oykarumba7 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋