How do you get over a pet that died?Help?

Question

My dog,Sadie,died today,and I just can't stop crying,I'm so sad that she died!

Answer 1

my pet of 5 years died about 2 or so years ago...and although its painful...i still think about her..you have to place your mind somewhere else

Pay attention to your feelings, even if you don’t understand them. Write about your feelings and talk with others about them.


Don’t assume that the current grief will be like previous ones. You are not the same person who grieved before (though old griefs may definitely come alive in new sorrows).


Listen to music, especially instrumental music that helps express your sorrow and move through it.


Create your own art, music and poetry to express your feelings. Don’t worry whether it is “good.” Just do it.
Move your body. Walk in the woods, exercise or take a yoga class. Anything that gets you moving for at least a short time during the day can help lift your spirits.


Spend some time with others who have lost pets. Check out the message boards and pet loss support groups

Answer 2

I lost my dog Buster in March after he was hit by a car and killed. He managed to crawl under the fence in our backyard and wander away. I still miss him more than anything. He was 9 years old. I am still not completely over him but I take comfort in knowing that he is waiting for me at the Rainbow Bridge and that he does come to visit me at times. He will always be with me in my heart and I will always love him. It's natural to grieve over our beloved pets, time will heal your pain and it's ok to cry over your Sadie. It just means you love her. You will stop crying, maybe not today or tomorrow but it will be soon. I still cry sometimes when I think of Buster or see his pictures. I never did get to say good bye to him. I didn't know he was dead until the next day when I called the animal control people to report him missing. That's when I found out what happened to him.

I did look for him and spent all night walking around calling for him. He was a rat terrier and my dearest friend. I really do feel your pain and loss. Hang in there, don't be worried about crying, it will heal soon. Cry it all out and then let the healing begin. Sadie loves you just as much. It's ok to mourn.

Answer 3

That's really hard to deal with. I'm really sorry about your loss. I definitely know what you're going through. Once you've had time to mourn sufficiently, you may want to think about getting another pet. Even though nobody or nothing could replace Sadie in your heart, a new pet will most likely help fill that emotional gap and you'll be able to grow new love for this new animal. At the very least, it will take your mind off of dwelling on your previous loss. Good luck!

Answer 4

Its always difficult to lose something or someone you love. It takes time to grieve. Remember the good times, maybe make a memory box with pictures, favorite toys, collar and leash ect. Appreciate the love you shared and be proud of the fact that you gave your pet the best life possible. Do not rush out and get another dog with the idea that a new dog will help ease the loss of the deceased one. You need time to grieve and heal before another bond can be meaningly forged with another dog. You will find yourself comparing and thats not fair to you or a new puppy. Also this story might help...
http://www.tckc.org/html/dogs_know.html
Remember a terrible loss means you had something great to lose, be thankful for what you had. Good luck.

Answer 5

Sorry for your loss.
It's realy hard to accept the loss of a pet.
Just look back at the good times and the memories.
It may seem a little spooky but don't be surprised if you see your pet in it's familiar places or feel that she's there at times.
I lost a cat and I could feel him walk across the bed for weeks afterward.
It seemed real enough that I would reach out to pet him.
Get another dog. Not as a replacement. Nothing will replace your loss but it will keep your mind occupied and that will help.

Answer 6

That is so AWFUL!
If my dog died today i would cry alot!
But if i was you i would try to think of something happy that has happened in your life but it can't be about a dog!
Then maybe some day you would forget about the dog and you might want to get a new dog that you really love.
Good Luck

Answer 7

It's so very heartbreaking. Grieving takes time. Try to go through the motions of life, even though you feel like you can't. Make tea, talk to someone about her. Talking really helps.

Good girl, Sadie.

Answer 8

There isn't really much more I can add, except I am really sorry to hear this. It's hard when you lose a pet, and the only answer is "Time". I have lost two pets, and I had them cremated. They sit on my mantle over the fireplace. Just know in your heart they are out of pain, and in a beautiful place. You will see them someday when it is your turn. Wish I could take away your pain. It does get easier...........

Answer 9

When my doggie died last year I cried for days. He was such a part of my life. After we finished grieving we realized that it was extremely sad to not see him underfoot everywhere and we missed him terribly so we decided to get another dog and it really helped. We will always love and remember Buddy but now we have 2 new puppies to love and take care of and make us smile! It will get better I promise! It will just take awhile.

Answer 10

I'm so sorry you lost your best friend. I lost several dogs in my lifetime and for me only time healed the wounds. Some people get another dog right away but every person is different. Some people need time to grieve. Give yourself some time and remember you gave her a loving, caring home. I'm sure she loved you just as much. God bless.