How can i tell the guy i like that i like him without being too obvious? I think he's too shy to tell me he likes me (check my other post about what he does if you think you have a different opinion about that) so how can i tell him i like him, or should i leave it unsaid, because guys dont like when girls tell them they like them
2007-10-05 10:08:50 · 8 answers · asked by orangekiwi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who told you that we don't like that? That's a lie. It keeps us from spending day and night wondering if you do or don't. Just straight up ask him out and see what he says.
2007-10-05 10:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by All That Jazz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st, what's the problem with being obvious? If you like a guy, let him know. The worst that could happens is that he's too nice or embarrassed to tell you if he doesn't. The truth is, you've got nothing to lose. You have nothing now and if you tell him and he's not interested, well, at least you'll know what to do with the rest of you life.
2007-10-05 17:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, don't tell him, show him... Smile, look at him, and flirt with him. Telling him can often lead to scaring him off, if he dont feel the same way yet. ;) However, you're better off being his friend and see where the relationship is at. Rushing things would complicate things.
Who knows, you might end up not liking him at all.
2007-10-05 17:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your information is flawed. Guys don't dislike being told when a girl likes them. So the more obvious you are, the less chance of a misunderstanding.
2007-10-05 17:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that ur into him and ask if he would like to go hang out sometime...life is way to short to be waiting around for some guy to make the first move...if you want something then go get it. and who said that guys don't like it when girls tell them they like them, not the guys I know. they like women u stand on there on two feet and have an opinion and who are the ones who make the first move.... this ain't the olden days...women can approach men
2007-10-05 17:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by my_rainythoughts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just met then don't move to fast and say it.But if you feel strong you should show little signs that you like him and if he responds to those in a good way he probably likes you.You should go out with him as friends and see how you feel then if you feel comfortable enough let him know. :)
2007-10-05 17:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by aisha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys love it when a girl tells them...
2007-10-05 17:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by JZX 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him someone special cares for him. ~and see how he reacts.
2007-10-05 17:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by edison c d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋