ugh im so bored i love my boyfriend but i feel like we dont do much we just relax at home make it blockbuster nights every weekend can you guys please give me some ideas of things we can do?!?!
he doesnt like bars or clubs
2007-10-05 10:05:22 · 12 answers · asked by pink! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why doesnt he like bars or clubs??? i didnt know there was anything else to do on the weekend??
2007-10-05 10:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't really know what you guys are into, but you can always go on a camping trip, or hiking. Or if you are history buffs then go to a museum, or even if your not history buffs, go to a museum. Or you can always look online for activities to do around your area. Or you guys can take up golf together, or pool or bowling. It doesn't have to be boring! I know, sometimes it's easy to get stuck in the same old routine and sometimes it's hard to break from that mold, but you guys will find something that you both love to do.
Sounds like Rob W needs to give my hubby some tips! That man should teach a class!!!!!
2007-10-05 17:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by rose_2620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the way i look at relationships: if they're not growing, then it's stagnating, and from stagnation it's a relationship that will either revive itself or it's going to wither away and die.
the best thing probably should do would be to take him out to dinner somewhere and have a really heart to heart to find out what is going on with his mind. you might have to spice up the relationship; try and do things he likes to do, as a couple; try and bring more variety.
if he's unwilling to do these things, you just might have to start looking at other options. there's only so much you can do in a relationship, and if the other partner is not contributing to the relationship, then its time to possibly move on.
2007-10-05 17:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one night a week and make it your "special" night, where each week you take it in turns deciding what you want to do. That way you can choose to go out for a meal, a walk, go out for a glass of wine, or the cinema ect....Its simple, but a great idea.
2007-10-05 17:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont go to pubs/clubs at all. i take my wife to the pictures, night fishing , picnic on the beach for tea, just a simple walk around the streets to see whats happening. camping and we do alot of sitting in a swing seat just talking.
NO TV ALLOWED
2007-10-05 17:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by ROB W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pink !, Sweety return to the past, play board games or cards or take long walks. Try talking about your life and your future ! Have candlelit dinners, then make wild passionet desert ! Take scenic drives. Rekindle your fire by dating again !
2007-10-05 17:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go bowling or mini golf
go to a football game/ other sport you like
get some friends together and have a BBQ or some dinner
2007-10-05 17:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by sugar sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a bike
have a nice long ride out of city.
let him ride u hug him
get to some beach lake of mountain top some thing.....
this is wht we do.......
2007-10-07 23:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Pashya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out for a walk in the park and breath the fresh air
2007-10-05 17:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you guys shoud try going out somewhere nice like a fancy resturant
2007-10-05 17:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by nodoubtaboutit27 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋