I meet this guy last week and we went out 4 times the first week we meet. This week I needed alone time to take care of errands and didn't have the time or energy to see him. He has called everyday this week asking to meet up calling me sweety and honey like we were dating. I keep pushing him off because I want some room and have told him that. It's almost to the point of "stalker". How do I tell him "leave me the h*ll alone" nicely?
2007-10-05 09:53:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Tell him he's not your type or tell him you've met someone new.
2007-10-05 22:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him like a million times a day and act all clingy and talk about marriage all the time and show exaggerrated and utter insecurity. He might run away..lol. But oh well, all this will require ur effort. I'd say tell him politely but firmly that he is a great guy but you don't think it's going to work out since you do not think you both make a good fit. Be sure to be very Firm in what you say and talk like u know what you are talking about. When guys detect hesitation, they will keep trying more and more. Try the decent approach. If that doesn't work, you might have to cut out ur politeness and stop all communication. I hope he does not know where you live.
2007-10-05 10:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you learn to take things slowly then you won´t have this sort of problem in the future. As it is you now have little choice but to tell him to get lost.
2007-10-05 10:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him Honey I really dont care for you the same way you do me so if you would please just leave me alone as I am no longer interested in you. good luck .
2007-10-05 09:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here is a menu to pick from:
you don't date guys with that small of anatomical parts
you would rather set yourself on fire than hang out again.
after your last date you are thinking about switching teams
its not me its you
my phone just isn't ringing when you call...weird
I'll call you when i want to see you again
i just want something casual just with other people.. other than you
you remind me of my brother/1st cousin
and if those don't work tell him you are voting for Hillary in 08.
2007-10-05 10:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by irish398 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to just tell him how you feel. It's gotten to this point because YOU led him on. If you actually communicated your feelings to him, you wouldn't be in this situation!
2007-10-05 10:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would use the old stand by...I got back together with my old boyfriend.
I think your great......but my old boyfriend called and we decided to try to work things out. Then he doesn't try to change your mind and doesn't take it too personal.
2007-10-05 10:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by EVIE C 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Youy gotta be hard, tell him hard. "Stop this now, I'm not interested". That covers all your bases, make sure someone else hears you say that. It is hard, but it will work. Be tough.
2007-10-05 14:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you just want to be friends. And avoid him like the plague.
2007-10-05 09:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by eZonis34 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get caller ID, or tell him your new boyfriend wouldn't appreciate you continuing to talk to other men....he won't know the difference.
2007-10-05 09:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by mowsermae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋