i hate my mum what should I do...?

Question

she is treatin me like i am a kid because i cam home late

Answer 1

ask her for a curfew.. show her your responsible.. thats the only thing i can suggest.. other then that if ur 16 den move out!

Answer 2

Obviously you are a kid and an irresponsible one at that. If you don't want to hear her nag when you come home late, don't come home late, make your curfew.

I bet your mom is pretty fed up and disgusted with you and yet she still keeps you around and feeds you and keeps a roof over your head and even cares enough to worry about you when you are late coming home.Oh yeah she is a real B****.

What should you do? Stop whining. Obey the rules you mother sets. In other words Grow up. If you do not want to be treated like a kid, even if you are one, then you need to stop acting like one and that includes hating people for caring about you and thinking you can do what you want without consequences. You need

Answer 3

Perhaps its because you ARE a kid? How old are you? What planet are you living on? Your mother is **** scared everytime you walk out that door grace because, in this horrible, violent society we call our world these days, she doesn't know if you're going to come home AT ALL!!! Whilst you're out having fun and games with your mates, your mother is not sitting watching corrie and eastenders without having one ear on the door, waiting for the most precious thing in her life to walk back through it! Her mind is not really on the programme thats on tv, its on you and whether you're alright out there! She's hoping and praying that you don't get involved with drugs or drink, she's praying to god that you don't get raped, mugged, shot or stabbed to death! Thats the reality of being a parent in this day and age, never mind about being a teen! Your mother is only concerned grace, please don't give her a hard time about it, she loves you with her very soul and would die for you. She's given up an awful lot in her life,, her hopes and dreams, her wishes and wants, so that she can be there for you every minute of your life! Have a bit of respect the next time she wants you in at a certain time because if she says be in a 9pm, it means 9pm, not ten past or half past! You can takew my word for it love, that if she says 9pm, her eyes are on the clock until you are in and you are safe! She's not curtailing your fun, she's not being nasty, she's being a mum, sounds like a bloody decent one too to not want her child out at all hours! Trust me, you'll look back on all your rows one day and you will break your heart crying because she wont be here anymore! Think about it!

Answer 4

Look, ignore most of the rubbishy replies to your question, you may think that your mother is treating you like a kid, O.K., she may be,just stop and think for a minute, while you were out late,Mother was worried sick about where you were, and if you were safe, she probably got herself so wound up that she took it out on the cause of her worry when you finally got home. At the end of the day, just remember, this happened because your mother loves you!

Answer 5

Every body telling you to grow up needs to shut up cause they dont know anything about being a teen. Times have changed so much.

My parents treat me like a child, but its because I use to do a lot of dumb things to put my life in danger. Your mom is just worried. Next time something like this happens say "I understand you were worried when I stayed out late, I'm sorry it wont happen again." And then when she cools off say "Can we set a reasonable curfew. " I know that **** sounds corny but it works trust me.

Answer 6

wait until you have children of your own to understand why parents are like they are.

You may think it all a bit harsh. But you have to try to see things from your mum point of view, she brought you into the world and cares and loves you worries about you and your future, as well has feeding clothing and keeping a roof over your head.

ah all these things parents do, that we dont notice or just take for granted.

Answer 7

You need to be responsible for the time you come in. She waited for you and you frightened her. She thought something had happened to you.

Prove to her that you're an adult. Come in 10 minutes early. She'll likely faint with surprise.

Your Mom loves you so much. You need to take care of her and let her help you out because no one in the whole wide world will ever love you like she does.

TX Mom

Answer 8

Hi,

my brother has that problem but he is like 2 months younger than me. i come in when i say i am not stupid hours in the morning like him. it's not right to do that other people especially when the person has to get in the morning, even if you don't .so just try and show a bit of consideration to her prove to her that you can come in at a sensible time. plus if your living under house you got to play with the rules i know it may be crap i have the same problem.

May i ask how old are you?

Thanks for reading my views

stacey

Answer 9

You are a kid as long as she's paying. If you're underage, show some respect. If you're of legal age, get out and work - see how it feels.

If you are 57 years old and someone else is paying your bills you ARE a kid, a big baby. Grow up.

Answer 10

If you are going to act like a kid then you should be treated like a kid. You should have at least called your Mum so she wouldn't worry about you. I am sure that as soon as you grow up and act responsibly, she will treat you differently.

Answer 11

First of all its always wrong to hate your mother, she made you and sacrificed a lot for you- you should be thankful. Second are you a kid, how old are you? Mothers love their children unconditionally no matter how old the child becomes -you are her child. Third, you should be thankful that you have a mother that still cares for you, a person who still worries about, there are many who would love to be in your position