1. You learn from it and move on.
2. If you don't, you learn to get used to it.
Trust has to be earned. He has not done that yet has he? Back to #1
By the by, why did you listen to him tell you "he'll never do it again? He will show you what he'll do and won't do. He can't predict the future.
2007-10-05 09:17:04
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answer #1
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answered by areyoukidding 4
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We are all human and we all make mistakes. What sets us apart is how we handle ourselves after the mistake.
If your relationship means anything to you then of course you should accept his apology if he is sincere about it.
However if it happens again then you need to re-evaluate your relationship--because you can no longer trust what he says and he has proven that to you by having it happen again when he said it wouldn't.
It is at that point that you have trust issues not when he simply makes a mistake (whether or not at the time he realized that he is hurting you by flirting).
How many mistakes have you made in life and what kind of world would we live in if we were not given a chance to prove that it was a mistake and not a character flaw?
If this is a first offense, relax, accept his apology and realize that he is human.
2007-10-08 02:29:33
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answered by Spence 2
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If you are even concerned that he "flirted" with another girl, you are not very serious about this "relationship". I am sure there are occasions where you have "flirted' with other guys too. What is the big deal? If he is gutless enough to apologize for harmlessly flirting, you should get another boyfriend who is at least man enough to stand up for himself.
2007-10-05 09:21:58
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answered by Wiz 7
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well i was in the same boat as u at one point. on eday i saw my bf with a another girl in the hallway and i jus thought oh nothing, but then 1 week later i seen him again with others girls.
well comes to find out he was getting there numbers and everything and talking to them.
well he apologized and everythingi took him back.. big mistake he kept doin it. and then one day i caught him cheating on me. but i was still stupid enough that i took him back again. its hard to let go when ur in love.
but after 3 yrs of being with him i calle dit quits. it hurt so bad but 9 months later i found my soul mate. so when they say there is other fish in the sea.. totally true
so what im trying to say is forgive him once and if it happens again get rid of him..sorry
2007-10-05 09:20:24
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answered by Anonymous
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well being tipsy doesnt give any good excuse for him to do that tbh, uh in my eyes. i think its good you guys are having a break from each other, so this way you can really think about wheather hes worth a second chance or not. it doesnt really matter about our opinions because at the end of the day you will have to follow your heart and do whats best for you. were just here to guide you :) through a decision you'll have to make by yourself for the better.
2016-04-07 06:02:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I believe as human beings we are all imperfect and are bound to fall one way or the other, when you say you love somebody that means you have decided to forgive his or her short comings.if he admitted and apologised to you, why not forgive him and allow your love to cover his short comings, cos I believe if you were in his position, you'll expect him to forgive you no matter how you offended him though am not trying to glorify his act, hate his act and hold him close to your heart if truely you love him. I wish you luck.
2007-10-05 09:30:24
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answered by azeez a 1
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Its just flirting...if he admitted it and apologized then u should just 4give him...i wouldnt trust him much but i would just give it another shot.
2007-10-05 09:18:39
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answered by Carol 3
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As long as he didn't cheat on you then I would accept the apology and move on. If he cheated then screw him. Good luck!
2007-10-05 09:17:11
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answered by Anonymous
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if i loved him then i would forgive him. of course i would give him another chance...every one makes mistakes.
2007-10-05 09:17:37
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answered by Hello 3
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well w/e he did can never be erased!
u should forgive him but if he does it again than he isn't serious about ur relationship!
2007-10-05 09:17:13
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answered by Anonymous
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