Well I had a couple guys that liked me and so I got a little bit cocky. This one guy is really cute, funny, nice, and smart but he is short so I kinda ingored him. And when he was talking to me I made all these mean short guy jokes and I could tell he got really pissed then he stopped talking to me. Well the guy I was going after turned out to be a real Ahole. He left me at the bar because I told him I wasnt going to sleep with him that night. Well the cute short guy saw me balling my eyes out. He comforted me and then walked me home. I realized that he was a great catch and I waited for him to make a move but he never did. Right before he dropped me off I go so is when you make your move on me? He looked at me and chuckled and said normally yes this would be it. Then I go well why not now? He replies by saying well you told me that you would never date guys under 5'6 so why would I waste my time? Then he wished me well and told me there would be other guys in my future.
2007-10-05 09:08:49 · 14 answers · asked by Ashely85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So not to stress out about this one Ahole. And he left. I waited for a few days and no word. I really think I screwed up. I dont know why I said all those horrible things. I really do like him. Is there anything I can do to get him to make a move now? Would he say yes if I asked him out? Or was he really hurt by what I said and only walked me home because hes a nice caring guy and now he wants nothing to do with me? Help??
2007-10-05 09:10:44 · update #1
I bet you really did hurt him. But by the sounds of it, that guy is one in a million. Short he may be in stature, but a heart of gold. Taking care of a hurt soul, even when it had hurt him. Didnt take advantage of you when wounded... And left wishing you every bit of luck.
You need to go chase that man down before someone else realizes what he is. Swear that you were wrong, and shallow, and willing to make up for it. Beg if you need to. You'll probably never find another one like that.
2007-10-05 09:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by billgoats79 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes being an asshole hurts you too, huh? From someone who is only 5' tall, I can tell you he walked you home cause he is a nice guy, Think about how you would feel if someone had done what you did to him. There may be a chance he will change his mind is you make a heartfelt apology, but I think the chances are rather slim. Good luck with all those tall guys, just remember, you did this to yourself.
2007-10-05 09:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that was not cool hun i would say your chances with short cake are over. What goes around comes around. you were an ahole and wound up with one see. I would be very honest with the nice guys and see what happens there is a trust issue now
2007-10-05 09:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 05:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the way you make this guy sound.....he sounds genuine. And I think you blew it, he was right, you dissed him then when another guy hurt you, you found out that this guy you hurt, rejected you, it hurt didn't it? That my dear, is what you call....Karma. You hurt someone.....then someone hurt you. I'm not saying this to sound mean, but you reap what you sow. he walked away with his head held high, maybe now you can do the same, but try not to insult anybody else, people have feelings. Guys are more sensitive than you think.
2007-10-05 09:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by sunfire1165 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you could definetly get him back. Make it Romantic, next time you see him, after he leaves tell him to wait then say "You wouldn't be wasting your time for me" and then be like "Look, I was a ***** but I really like you and I would love to see you again sometimes, but if not I guess I can understand" but say it from your heart. I'm totally on your side! Go get 'em! Good Luck
2007-10-05 09:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by scsmith478 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight out that you messed up and ask him if he would consider giving you a second chance. And remember this in the future when you are tempted to make mean remarks.
2007-10-05 09:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by lovely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give him a few days/weeks to cool off and then ask him out but first sincerely apologize to him. i don't think you've blown your chances with him, but know better in the future. maybe even offer to pay for his dinner or something to make up for it, or buy him a small gift.
2007-10-05 09:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to forgive you... thats the solution... Tell him you didn't mean those things and that you've been thinking about him alot all of this time... I'm sure any guy would want to hear that...
Good luck Sweetheart!
2007-10-05 09:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by VortexHunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you call him an apologize for saying what you did? Tell him you were being a jerk and you would like a second chance.
2007-10-05 09:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋