When will Miss Right come?

Question

Hi.

I have been wanting to find Miss Right for sooo long, but she hasn't yet entered my life. I'm 24, and have a job.

I am not at all shy, and can talk to a girl with ease. I guess over the years, I've built up that kind of confidence. I've had a few female friends who I have previously fallen for, but none of them felt the same way. I dream every day and every night of finding this someone special, because it would mean the world to me. Sometimes I find I cry myself to sleep because I feel lonely/depressed about this. I don't have any desires to be a millionnaire, have a big house/mansion, or even a flashy car. All I want is just to have that someone special in my life. Even money doesn't really matter to me, (just so long as I have enough to live on!).

Can someone offer any advice?

Thanks

Answer 1

Miss Right is the one who hides when the light is on...like a cock roach when you turn on the lights... stop looking and she will surprise you.
On a serious note:
1. Think of the things that you enjoy doing... Do those things and you might bump into her doing the same things.
2. Don't tell a girl all your feelings and hopes right up front. She may feel intemidated thinking she can't measure up to what you are looking for. Then, she will run away.
3. Don't sell yourself short. You have to envision that you are high quality, so it takes time for the "right" one to match the deal.
4. Enjoy you singleness now my brother. Once you are locked down...tatoo it on your forehead...you are out the game.

Answer 2

Jack I can identify with your feelings of loneliness etc. But trust me when I say that there is a Miss Right out there for you and when the time is right she will appear almost magically. Sometimes we give off the aura of being either over confident or overly needy. Relax and be yourself and when you least expect it you will met her or she you and at that time you may indeed even see sparks flying. Keep your ego in good repair and do not despair. After my last relationship ended I felt for certain that I was meant to be an old and lonely man for the remaining time I have on this earth. Then a woman came into my life and we both swore right from the get go that marriage was the last thing that either of us wanted. Well fate has a way of working for us rather than against us and on May 20 of this year we found out that we had lied not only to each other but also to ourselves and we did marry. If you have any special interests or hobbies perhaps you could join a group of like minded people and meet someone there. Good luck to you and may a happy long lasting relationship be awaiting for you right around the corner.

Answer 3

Man, I don't know if this will help at all, because I don't know your past experiences or your current situation, but I feel your pain. Have you considered a church, if you feel comfortable there. I'm not saying "Go to church to look for a girl", but if you are there for the right reasons, God will lead you to someone who has the same desires as you.
You can't just give up hope. Maybe you could join a class, book club, something that you enjoy, so you can meet new people. Also you can work up the courage to ask friends to set you up with people. Find a friend or sibling that you really trust and ask if they know of any interesting people that you could meet.
Good Luck, God Bless.

Answer 4

Trust me, I know exactly how you feel. You want that one person that was meant for you to come into your life, and change everything make you feel things you could only read about. But yes, that once me, but don't turn out like me. You have to wait, it isn't something that you know is going to happen, and if it does, when. It just does. "Love" is blind, this person could be someone you already know, it could be some stranger, but one day you'll never look at a woman the same way. One day, I'm pretty sure, a woman will walk into your life and you'll know.

Answer 5

Hi,

You're me 10 years ago. I was 32 when I met my wife. It was a long 10 years....

She was worth waiting for. Be patient because loving the wrong person is worse than being alone. Trust me. Too many 2 year marriages occur because people did not want to be alone.

Hang in there and wait for Mrs. Right it is VERY worth the wait.

Answer 6

It may seem strange, but when you stop looking, miss right will find you right away.
You're probably sending off creepy or desperate signals right now.
Just focus on having fun and enjoying life, you'll find the right person soon enough.

Answer 7

aww..we all have those days...
you shouldnt give up, love takes time and patience. you cant go looking for it, it will find YOU.