He texts me sometimes and ask me to go places but then he doesnt say a word for a long time. Is he just doing this to mess with my head?
2007-10-05 08:32:30 · 21 answers · asked by Elyse B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is he shy? text doesn't need to be face to face, sometimes it is a bit difficult to talk. tell him that he can try to talk a bit at a time, ask him to be himself.
2007-10-05 08:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hint for u. Mirror his actions! If he txts, txt him back, if he doesn't txt, don't txt him either. Won't be long before he knows whats happening and if he is genuinly interested in u, he'll find out more about u and start to have a proper chat. If he doesn't, then he was just messing ur head. Men do that because it makes them feel sexy and they're the ones in control, but the truth is, its his lack of control over ego and vanity.
You are 16, and men who r the same age as u r very childish and like to play games. I would wait for older men (but not too much older) something like 23yrs old who has actually matured in the head :)
best of luck to u :D
2007-10-05 08:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, for one, YOU are WAY too young to even think about being in love. Trust me. Pay attention to school and you'll be ALOT better off. There are always more guys out there. And even if you are so sure you are absolutely in love with this guy, and he's treating you the way he is treating you, then he is not worth your effort or time. There are guys out there that actually cherish women, try to find one of them, but you won't find them this early, just wait. It'll be so much more better when you do.
2007-10-05 08:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by Raeanna P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 16 is part of grown up and known when guys are playing games which sometimes is hard to detect. It appear that is what your friend is doing.
2007-10-05 08:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play the field, don't commit to just one guy you will regret it, when that really good looking guy comes along and you are with another bf. Date several guys so you can start to discover what kind of guy you really want. Getting too serious with one guy at your age can be the cause of unwanted pregnancy.
2007-10-05 08:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16, you arent in love with him; its infatuation. Real love wont happen with someone until you have been with them for a long time.
He might text you when he is wanting to attract you. If you like the guy dont respond, make him chase you.
2007-10-05 08:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Michael G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe hes gaining courage and i think hes playing games in his head beacause maybe he thinks hes over doing it. So i would make a move and show him you really like him. Good Luck
2007-10-05 08:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he's doing it because he doesn't want to just be with you. He might like you, but he doesn't want to be serious and monogomous with just you. This is very normal for your age.....you should do the same....enjoy being single. There are PLENTY of men out there!
2007-10-05 08:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by jillybean5415 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a controlling person who doesn't know what he wants. Move on, find someone who treat you like an equal.
2007-10-05 08:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, off, you should realize that largely BECAUSE you're sixteen, you don't really know enough about love to know whether or not what you're feeling IS love.
Being "totally in love" is where you are concerned for his happiness, health, welfare, and safety, at least as much as you are concerned for your own.
If your concern for his happiness were anywhere near as much as your concern for your own happiness, you wouldn't be nearly as worried about his 'hot and cold', but would be willing to wait for his temperature to even out and see if he still wants you in the picture with him.
Second, you should take a step back and look at exactly what it is that you might be misperceiving as his 'hot and cold'. What's so wrong about a guy wanting to date you off and on instead of every single day? Again, if your concern for him were near as much as your concern for yourself, you'd be giving him the benefit of the doubt.
Third, you should talk to him about it.. if he'll let you. If not, case solved.
2007-10-05 08:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Robert G 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋