Me and my best friend always go over to her boyfriends house and her boyfriend has a really hot friend but hes always mean to me. Like he always tells me to shut up and to f off and even one time he got mad cause he kepted calling me names and i kept saying yep im a b*tch and she just barley tapped me one the leg like a small kick and i just kicked him back. And he is really annoying like i stand up and he tries to de pants me all of his friends say he likes me but thats a kinda strange way to show.
2007-10-05 08:27:01 · 9 answers · asked by GSD Girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes 18 yrs old
2007-10-05 08:34:06 · update #1
maybe because HE likes YOU.
2007-10-05 08:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by CHER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go to his house any more. Your returning to his home tells him that his behavior is okay and that you deserve more of it.
Be there for your friend. When a guy treats his girlfriends' friends and/or relatives shabby, that's a sign of jealousy and controlling abuse. It's possible that he treats her worse. She may even ask you to be with her when she goes to his place to feel safer.
Let your friend know that his behavior towards you is abusive and you are not going over there any more.
Also, under NO circumstances let yourself be alone with this guy. He sounds dangerous.
Talk to someone about him, like a school counselor. If the guy gets in trouble and your friend gets angry at you, so be it. You are keeping yourself safe and your speaking up to an authority figure may even save your friend in the future.
2007-10-05 15:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? If he is a younger guy in his teenage years then he is very immature. I mean I used to joke around with girls I liked but I would never tell them to f off or call them a female dog.
That is just wrong, I would not talk to him. If he does like you then he is a jerk for going about it the way he is. He's been watching too many gangsta rap videos thinking that is what women like to be treated like.
2007-10-05 15:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Michael G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats really imature if he does like you.. and if he doesnt like you .. thats still really imature lol..
my advise to you is to try to avoid him while your at your friends bf's house.. i dont know why you go anyways .. why would u want to be the third wheeler.. i kno shes ur best friend and all but geesh.. especially if theres a jurk *** guy treating u like that.. (liking u or not thats still unexceptable).. if you want to continue going there then i just guess ur gonna have to take it..
you can always try talking to him and asking him why he treats you like this.. maybe even ask if you guys can start fresh and start everything from the beggining .. for humar be like so who are you... im _________ (whatever your name is.. ).. and your name is _________ (whatever his name is).. and u both can laugh it off lol...
anyways hope it works out.. and u get your problem sorted out!
best of wishes
kesha!
2007-10-05 15:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you allow him to be!!!!! Don't be around him. Show people you have self respect and won't go where people don't treat you right.
If he liked you he wouldn't be using profanity and trying to humiliate you. Ask yourself is this loving behavior?????Please don't allow a boy to mistreat you.
2007-10-05 15:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Didi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calling names is a bit extreme. teasing is a way of flirting. tell him if he likes you he should give you a hug or a kiss for a beginner. avoid him for awhile to see if he acts differently.
2007-10-05 15:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a caveman? Next thing you know he'll be pulling you by the hair back to his cave.
2007-10-05 15:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by icu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because u let him his friends think its cool stand up 4 yourself & dump him if he dont stop!!!!
2007-10-05 15:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by neal s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you
2007-10-05 15:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by *butterfly girl* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋