My sister wants me to stay here inTx, but my heart is telling me to move to indiana & be with my one true love & start being a step daddy to her daughter & I do truly want to leave & tell my ex to get screwed & hope she finds another man to screw over & take control of his life to
2007-10-05 08:25:46 · 12 answers · asked by torture26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, let me understand this. Your sister wants you to stay in Texas. The girl you love and want to be with is in Indiana and the girl you want to get away from is with you now?
Hon, if you are older than 18, you don't need anyone's permission to do anything. I'll be honest...if you love this girl in Indiana and really want to settle down and do the right thing, then go. Tell your ex thanks for the "memories" and give her the old heave ho. Tell your sister you understand her concern, but that your heart lies elsewhere, but that if things don't work out in Indiana, you will come back and stay with her. Good luck.
2007-10-05 08:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by kikio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a follow the heart guy too.. but you have to make SURE its telling you the truth. Your sister has known and loved you all your life. Love is BLIND...so she might see a situation or something else that your heart/mind wont let you see. The "instant family" action....getting with women that already have kids from another daddy, etc...is a fkn tightrope, Spud. Sometimes they are wonderful, and last forever. Sometimes the female is just in need of a companion and help with her life, kid, etc....which will wear-off and end in tears. You cant run away from the Ex, so dont even consider her in your decision to stay or leave...for real. Best of luck bro.
2007-10-05 08:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by petrol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question. I'm going through a similar problem. The really tough part is knowing if she want's you to come out.
I have to admit to being a little stumped. I believe it was Davie Crockett that once said "Know that yer right, then go ahead." Well, if you know that your relationship will work with her, and she feels the same way about you, then go ahead. It's going to be rough in the beginning - because you'll be starting over in a new place and all that goes along with that. But, endeavor to persevere and work through it. If you love her and she's worth it, you (plural sense) will do well. Good Luck.
2007-10-05 08:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by kodiak155 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and leave the ex out of it. You should only be concerned with the true love of your life, and your sister is your sister and unless you want to lose the true love then get ur butt to Indiana. Your sister will eventually get over it and you will be happy with the true love of your life.
2007-10-05 08:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister or your ex? If it's your ex, why are you even listening to her, especially if you're already involved with someone? If it's your sister, yeah, it's hard to leave your family. But you know, you have to live your own life. And if your love is in Indiana, that's where you need to be. Tell your sister you'll still keep in touch. You love her, and she'll never lose you. But you've got to do it. :)
2007-10-05 08:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to IN just to spite your ex for screwing you over, DON'T GO.
If you are truly in love with your new companion, and feel like you can go an provide for her and her child emotionally & physically, MORE POWER TO YOU, GO AND BE HAPPY.
I don't know what your sister's reasons for suggesting you stay home are, and I don't know what your relationship is like with her, but if I were you, I would seriously consider her input before making any rash decisions.
Good Luck!
2007-10-05 08:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you should move to In. If you do and it doesnt work out you can always move back to Texas and start over. But if you dont you'll always wonder what if plus you'll always hold that grudge towards your sister and blame her for not letting you go.
2007-10-05 08:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by kyledc13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you should leave then by all means go for it. We only get one true love and even if it don't work out you can say you tried. I would and see what happens.
2007-10-05 08:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to Indiana...
It's right next to Ohio so thats pretty cool....
But really u should go to Indiana if thats where u wanna be ....
Show ur ex- whos boss and go to ur new woman!
lol
2007-10-05 08:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by ~*The Show Must Go On*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 03:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by carvajal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋