ok so I really like this guy. And I am a really shy girl. I have liked hime for a year now and i want to ask him out. he is in every one of my classes and I am in middle school keep that in mind. I am really shy so this is gonna be really hard for me please i need help.!!!
2007-10-05 08:18:41 · 15 answers · asked by guuuuuuuuuuuuuurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Start a conversation and ask if he's busy during the weekends. If he isn't, here's your chance to ask him out! Take him to a place you both enjoy. (Movies and skating at a park is popular). Make sure you he knows that this is casual. So he feels comfortable. Maybe invite some friends to make it even more fun!
2007-10-05 08:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age it is best to leave the "asking out" up to the guys, when it comes to dating (this may sound old fashioned). You mention that he is in all your classes, are there other friends of yours that are also in some of the same classes? If so, get a study group together and from there make plans as a group to go to the mall, movies, pizza, or hang out at your house or one of the other friend's and rent a movie with popcorn or pizza. This will give you more time with him and be able to get to know him a little better. If you have a friend that can mention to him that you are interested in him, Who knows he my be interested in you and have more confidence to ask you out if he knows you are interested in him as well.
2007-10-05 15:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by EMT-207 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of stressing about a one-on-one date, why not invite him to join you and your friends for an activity. You can see how it goes and proceed from there. Being with a group is always easier than one-on-one. Maybe if you 2 don't date you could have made a new friend, at least!
2007-10-05 15:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by gma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look fear in to the eyes, you have nothing to loose.When you see him, just go and ask him simple as that. Believe me he is gonna like it!!! There is no room for being shy, you are strong enough to do that. But don´t start to talk too much, make it simple and quick.
2007-10-05 15:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lidija A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, i understand how big this seems to you, but the more you build it up, the more nervous you'll get.
are you friends with him..?? close at all..?
try to ask him to his face if you can.
or text or email him.
or then send a note.
and if youre absolutely desperate, ask a friend to ask for you (this should be a last resort)
it wont be easy if youre really shy, but the more personal and confident you are, the more he'll respect you.
good luck im sure youll be fine!!
x
2007-10-05 15:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, Hi...my mom is driving me to the mall on Saturday afternoon, would you like to go and maybe take in a movie, with me? (Wait for an answer).
2007-10-05 15:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by ~ Floridian`` 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say something like, I really like you and I wanted to know if it was possible if we could go out sometime, maybe to a movie or just to talk or something.
2007-10-05 15:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys suffer from shyness too!Do you think he likes you too?Maybe he does.Make up some pretext to talk to him,anything at all,then ask if he wants to go do something.Movie,coffee,whatever.
2007-10-05 15:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you ask him out start a conversation one day about a movie that you like to see or have seen. ask him if ,he have seen it and that will be your open to ask him if he would like to go to see a movie with you sometimes.Good luck
2007-10-05 15:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, after you spend hours getting your nerve up--call him on the telephone and ask him.
The worst that will happen is that he will turn you down.
Then if he accepts-have a good time on the date.
2007-10-05 15:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋