The last two guys I dated both cheated on me! None of these experiences happened as a teenager; yes, grown men really can be this immature!
My boyfriend of over a year sent me a letter in the mail (lame!) and told me that a customer from his work told him that he saw me walking with another guy downtown. (Yes, you read that correctly - I was "walking" with someone.) I called him up and said 'what's going on?' He told me he couldn't remember who told him (yeah right), but that I was with this guy (just walking! perfectly harmless!) and so he was breaking up with me. First off, no one from his work knew we were dating, so how did some random customer (who he couldn't recall) know and, more importantly, assume it was such a big deal that we were "walking"? I explained to my boyfriend that I worked with guys, and one of them was training me, so yeah, it was conceivable that someone saw us walking together. He wouldn't hear of it. That got me suspicious, and sure enough, I found out from some of his co-workers that he had some woman on the side. Lesson learned: if the guy says "someone" told him he "saw you" with some other guy and breaks up with you, he was cheating on you.
The other was my fiance - lovely. He worked at a retail chain, and I was simply trying to finish college. He had downloaded Yahoo Messenger onto our computer but kept his user name and password deleted from the screen (which was not the case with anything else between us). I was doing homework in the room with the computer, and he was chatting with someone. I asked him who he was talking to; he said 'a girl from work'. That was fine, I'm not the jealous type. At one point, I looked up and noticed that he kept minimizing the chat window. I asked him why, and he said he didn't want me to read what they were saying; I might get the wrong idea about what they were talking about. He actually said 'like if she told me she had fun last night, and it was just something we did at work'. Yeah right! I was suspicious and scared. Since he was using Yahoo Messenger, I decided to look at Yahoo Personals, and I actually found his personal ad! (I knew it was him based on the username - the moron picked something obvious! - and some of the language he used when describing himself.) I printed it out and confronted him with it. He didn't deny it, so I told him he needed to go, find his own place, move out - just get away from me. It was the biggest fiasco I've ever experienced in my life!
I have never cheated and will never cheat, because I believe in being honest - and if the relationship is that bad, just get out of it! These were some pretty sad learning experiences, but I made it through, and I now have a boyfriend who is out of this world incredible!
2007-10-05 08:38:41
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answered by xK 7
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Cheating is really never funny, you have broken a serious commitment. In the end all you have is your word and people should value it much more than they do.
2007-10-05 08:10:04
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answered by kmcpmgoodson 5
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actual you are able to desire to rouse! Your guy is on the down low! once you bypass finding for stuff it incredibly is once you regularly locate it. Now you should manage it. Molested or not, he's a fruitcake. He would have a difficulty because of the fact even however you caught him as quickly as, that did not end him from going decrease back. adult males that are in the closet % to prey on vulnerable women persons to cover up the reality that they don't seem to be waiting to settle for his or her sexuality. he's involved in adult males and that would desire to be sufficient to deliver you working for the hills. i think which you like him yet you have not any concept how some distance he has taken this. He would have already met a number of those adult males in guy or woman. If he has, he would desire to be bringing you living house all form of illnesses. adult males that are in denial do not think of roughly conserving themselves whilst they are sexual with different adult males because of the fact it incredibly is like admitting the reality to what they are doing is misguided. bypass on your nearby library and check out a e book talked approximately as "on the Down Low" written by skill of a gay guy that grew to become into married and in the closet yet nonetheless messed around with adult males in his church. He gave his spouse aids because of the fact he grew to become into too scared to admit what he grew to become into doing to her. Be secure and look after your self.
2016-10-21 03:44:39
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answered by carvajal 4
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I agree with the others cheating is not funny. I wouldn't do it because I wouldn't want it done to me.
2007-10-05 08:18:41
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answered by cocobee799 3
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I don't understand how some people find cheating funny, I had it happen to me and nothing about it was enjoyable.
2007-10-05 08:10:19
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answered by trusansno 2
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Well I know of someone who was on the phone with someone else and got suprised to the point he wet himself.
2007-10-05 08:11:49
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answered by Anonymous
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well i have cheated on my bf like 3 times because i just got tired of him so i kissed them 3 guys and ma *** got dumped!!! it was funny but it kinda hurted. .... yea then he asked me bak out so he ummm had changed a lil so i went bak wit him
2007-10-05 08:11:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Remember the last time we met and your hubby showed up from nowhere!
2007-10-05 08:11:06
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answered by Sami V 7
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Never cheated!
2007-10-05 08:10:08
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answered by MFFL 4
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are your cheating stories funny?
2007-10-05 08:20:24
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answered by ~Jeeya~ 3
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