Ok so I know i'm a girl but we do it too, what is the etiquette on sex?
I am seing a guy but we work shift work (usually opposite shifts i work nights and him days )and it's hard to see each other, when it comes time for us to have sex ,
can i get up and leve straight after? (to go to work/ bed) or does that make me a sl*t?
is it ok for a girl not to want to stay the night?
is it ok to cuddle one night and not the next?
does any one know the rules of sex etiquate?
2007-10-05 03:11:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Do what ever you want. When I was single, I had no qualms about beating feet after. Just please please please use a condom.
2007-10-05 03:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by mutterhals 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your bf doesn't mind, why worry? The etiquette on your personal relationship is, well, personal. If it works for the 2 of you, then you certainly shouldn't feel the need to justify or explain it to anyone else.
If you have to go to work, go to work. It's not a lot different than a nooner, lol.
If you have your own apartment, then the choice of sleeping there (alone) is always yours.
Cuddling (sex?) should ALWAYS be a mutual decision.
Sex etiquette requires that you wash your hands. Beyond that, it's open season.
2007-10-05 03:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by ianmacpherson55 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, after a while of working hard and being stressed out, it is hard to find the time to even have sex.
As far as leaving right after, I think you should do something creative for him. Make up a few "love coupons" that say things like "Good for one good cuddle" or something cute like that. When you have to leave quickly after, take one and put it on the pillow next to him. That way he knows you want to, you just had to leave.
2007-10-05 03:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Etiquette will have to give way to common sense and occupational concerns...he should understand that clearly since he works at the same firm. This doesn't "make" you anything but a person who has to go to work, so don't worry. (We're all trying to "get in where we fit in" so you're in good company).
2007-10-05 03:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what works for you. If you both work shifts he should understand. If what you want and what he wants are different to the point that you can't compromise, then maybe it's not meant to be...
...and even if there were any "rules", hell they're there for breaking!
2007-10-05 03:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if your both ok with it and have a mature relationship with respect its all up to the two of you. There's slutty and there's getting intimacy from your mate ...whenever you can. Hey marriage goes the same way after kids !!! Quickies are common !!
2007-10-05 03:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by lisa r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you want it makes a change for us girls to behave in such a way
2007-10-05 03:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by londongate11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and your partner are close enough to be having sex, you should be close enough that you don't need to ask this question.
2007-10-05 03:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋