how to get rid of an addiction of masturbation??

Question

how should i get rid of an addiction of masturbation..slowly or at once...
I am ruining my self esteem have no respect for myself and think there is no use living..
my STUDIES are badly effected....i am only in my teens ..MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY FRIENDS PARENTS ARE SUFFERING... ...cant find a way out.like in quite an isolated area so its very difficult ot find a psychiatrist also.....require serious help.......
.very badly addicted to it...thinking whether i should try at once or go gradually...and do u think most of the people masturbate as many say....i dont think so....will a urinologist help me...I AM NOT A CHRISTIAN

Answer 1

I don't care what denomination you are. Your story sound like a pile of BS. How does masturbation run your life? You can only physically do it so many times. You require help for delusions . Because that is what you are experiencing.

Answer 2

You might think about getting someone special in your life in order to help reduce the need since you will be more sexually aroused by the girl's contact and should then reduce a bit at least.

Tibetain monks do it too, but they never release and the idea behind it all even though they do not say it is that there are primary cells in sperm (in french, they are called cellules souches) which when they are stimulated but not released outside of the body, just beforehand it's a blocking technique that simply regives you the energy back into your system.

When masturbating you take energy from your kidneys and might feel tired, but this way, it's no way comparable and it'll also get you in complete harmonisation when with someone where you will be able to hold it longer and make the girls very happy if you have the right moves that goes with it ;-)

If you are to consult, a sex therapist would be the best in this case I believe.

Answer 3

many people who are addicted to sex, porn, shopping, gamboling, etc. think that twelve step programs won't help them because these behaviors are not drug or alcohol based. But, the chemical reaction that takes place in your brain during your behavior is very similar to the chemical reaction addicts get when doing drugs or drinking. Your brain will tell you that you have to masturbate in order to get through the day, to fall asleep, etc. It'll be a constant struggle, taking so much of your energy and focus, as it does now.
You need a professional and you need a twelve step program. You don't have to be a Christian or even believe in god to make the twelve step program work for you, but it will work as it does for millions of people who are in the same situation. It's your pride and fear that will keep you from attending the twelve step programs or getting counseling. It's your pride that will keep you in your current situation. It's your pride that will ensure that you live alone until you are found dead in your closet with a belt around your neck and the sound of a battery operated toy buzzing from your other end. Let's hope it's not your daughter who finds you when she's on a court ordered visit with you for the weekend. It's actually very common for sex addicts. Always after the ultimate high, trying to avoid the sickness you get when you try to get clean.

Answer 4

You are totally normal everyone does it don't be afraid to go and see your Dr though if it is worrying you that much. Your only a nipper you all go through that at some point. Don't feel ashamed it's not wrong it's perfectly normal to fiddle.
If it is really getting in the way of relationships why not limit yourself to doing it at practicle times of the day. If you get too stressed it might lead to you doing it more as it can be a way of relieving stress.

Good Luck Go have a chat with your Dr

Answer 5

Honestly I don't know what to say that can help you, but I could leave you with something to think of. I've read somewhere that frequent masturbation can actually decrease the size of ones penis. As for me that would be enough to subside the addiction. Then again I'm no doctor.

Answer 6

i think its normal but if it's affecting your daily life and social life, it needs attention.

try to find out why you do it. stress can make you do it more.

find help. first from a trusted friend or a relative.

keep yourself busy with work or sports and at public places.

don't lock your bedroom. try to place things like tv or computer outside your room.

if all of these fails. you really need professional help.

or try to dip your hands in HOT sauce if you feel the urge. i doubt if you'll be able to do it.

Answer 7

George, cool it everybody masturbates if you ask they will only lie and say no,, they don't, but all people who don't have a partner do, and many who do have someone still do it's a separate thing,then partner sex it for fills ones fantasy's
don't fret about it and continue to enjoy it in private, and remember we all do it

Answer 8

You definitely need to seek professional help. Someone who works with teens is what you need to find. And if you are more comfortable a same sex doctor to speak with might make this easier. And a urologist isn't what you need you need a good counselor. Good luck and find someone soon!!

Answer 9

I think the problem is not masturbation.

It has more to do with your problems. Masturbation is only an after effect.

You have to increase your self esteem. You need help also to do it.

Answer 10

If you can't get a psychiatrist ... a psychologist, MSW (Clinical Social Worker), therapist will help.