he found out a girl had something unfavorable to say about him,and she also did some things thereafter to piss him off.In turn.he berates her in public,forcefuly askas her age,drives her out of a public place a couple times,earns her yrust and then plays mind games with her ,asks if she is wanting to get shot at(for venturing into the wrong area)but in a sarcastic way....
2007-09-28 23:42:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Are you just going to ask the same question over and over and over again?
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2007-09-28 23:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Frank,
My question is what the heck is this girl doing going with this person in the first place or even associating with him.
This man certainly has a problem and I feel he could be dangerous.
We all say unkind things about others on occasion but that is no reason for this man to treat her like he is.
You don't say whether this girl is his girlfriend, so I assume she is not.
The first thing she needs to do is to refuse to go anywhere with him, especially alone. She should also stop associating with him in any way.
Not knowing how old this young lady is, is it possible for her to discuss what is going on with her parents and enlist their help?
What this man is doing appears tantamount to harassment and there are laws against this. The remark about being shot at could be construed as a threat.
If she has occasion to speak to him again she do so in public, with witnesses and diplomatically tell him that she know longer wants to associate with him and he must leave her alone and not approach her or speak to her.
She should also tell him what he is doing is illegal and if he does not stop she will reluctantly have to inform the authorities and/or consult a lawyer.
If this man is treating her in the way you say, I doubt she will be able to stop him without help from the authorities, parents and friends.
She has to do something now to resolve the situation.
I am also assuming that his girl is pretty frightened about what is happening to her and she must take steps to solve the problem. If not this man will simply continue what he is doing.
If she needs to report him, she should make sure she has as much evidence as possible, including witnesses, to present to the authorities.
I wish her the very best with this and pray this is resolved as quickly as possible.
John
(Poseidon)
2007-09-29 07:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Poseidon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say what is was she said that was so unfavourable, nor whether she deliberately wound him up.
However, his retaliation sounds a little over the top, premeditated and thoroughly malicious. It is certainly not the behaviour of a well balanced and secure individual.
2007-09-29 11:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by EdgeWitch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he has turnt in her stalker! She must have realy upset him. He needs to put his anger into something more positive. Perhaps join a gym to get rid of that pent up anger and then move on with his life so she may get on with hers.
2007-09-29 15:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by CAROLINE W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he's going a little over the top... but then again I don't know what the girl did to provoke such a response. Maybe, just maybe, she deserved it...
2007-09-29 06:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by The Tenth Duke of Chalfont 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he is only giving what he received.
If she didn't want to get humiliated and pissed off, then she shouldn't have pissed him off.
Don't give sh*t out if you can't take it back.
Good on him
2007-09-29 06:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by zeppelin_roses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guys sounds just like me...i.e. normal.
2007-09-29 06:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-29 06:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋