Am I the only one who wants to kill him??????

Question

http://www.yahoo.com/s/135782/*http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20070929/ap_on_re_us/sex_tape_search

Ok, what kind of monster could do that to a 3 year old???? I have a 3 year old daughter, and to be honest, if anyone even did anything remotely similar to this, he'd be dead. No questions, no hesitations, just kill a monster that gets turned on by babies.

According to the video portion, the child showed no emotion at all. For those who are parents, you know that if a child is going through something like that, they are kicking and screaming.

And what kind of mother doesn't even suspect something wrong at that age??? Where was her mother?? Or father??? Anyone but a "family friend". I'm a stay at home mother by choice. I don't trust daycares. The only people I trust with my two angels are my mother and my husband, because I have no doubts whatsoever that they are safe.

I don't mean to judge those parents who do, but why take such a huge risk with a "friend"???

And to those who are going to say that it's because of my religion that I feel this way, what kind of monster are you? Are you also a thing like that in the photo in the link? Do you really side with animals like that? No, it's not because of religion. It stems from being a parent who loves her children and protects them at any cost. Of course, this is going to be wasted on bigots who prefer to stick their heads in the sand rather than say "Yes, a thing who would videotape himself doing that to a baby should get what's coming to him"

Answer 1

MY children aren't this age anymore, but my grandchildren are...and I am very sure I would be in Jail for what I did to this person.
There are so many SICK people in this world...and for anyone to say your question is because of your faith, well I question their sanity...YOU can not trust anyone anymore when it comes to your children...they are YOUR responsibility, and it is up to YOU to keep them safe...thanks for your question.!!

Answer 2

When a child is sexually molested by a person close to them there is a grooming process that goes along with the molestation... Over time the molester grooms the victim to illicit compliance and even a shared guilt and feeling of responsibility..

Thus the child not showing emotion on the tape is not really shocking as the grooming process would cause the child to withdraw and show little to no emotion during the molestation..

My daughter (now age 10) was molested at age 5 by a close family friend (no longer a friend)... I can tell you from experience there are not always immediate outward signs from the child.. My daughters molestation lasted about 3 months before I saw the signs and put a stop the it.( The perpetrator is in prison)...

During counseling I was told that 3 months is very quick in catching it most molestations last years before a parent catches the signs even when the perpetrator is the other parent..

You ask where the parents were.. When my daughter was molested I was in the area one of the molestations took place during a pool party at my home (I am a stay at home mom) my daughter was taking a nap and the perpetrator went into the house to use the restroom and molested her in under 5 minutes returning to the pool party as if nothing had occurred...

You are judging the parents, I would hope you are never in the situation but I can tell you as a parent who was and is... Watching like a hawk doesn't always work as it can happen so quickly...

I will agree the molester needs to be taken out of society however I know from counseling that people who molest were often victims of molestation themselves..

Answer 3

Actually, your emotions are reasonable for this situation.

I'm not religious. Nonetheless, he must be horrible to harm a young child, especially one of that age. Sex can be a terrible thing if it is forced onto people with no ability to deal with that issue. I did have a friend who was raped at age 12 by an instructor, and it scarred the rest of her teenage years...

I'm also not in favor of the death penalty, but I think it will be a good, terrible punishment if his jailers throw away the key and he never gets access to pictures of children through media or television, which is a luxury offered at many prisons.

It's an unfortunate reality that some people do not take adequate care of their children. Maybe they should not have had them if they were not prepared to give them the best care, but remember that predators work by grooming the victim slowly and working their way to more serious violations. This was a case with my friend, as the instructor "counseled" her about some family problems she was going through. There are a lot of sick people in the world, and parents need to be vigilant. Most of them come from the most unlikely sources, as molesters tend to be the person you'd least expect and can hide their interest well.

Answer 4

OK. When I was being sexually abused, my parents really did not know. If they had known they would have done something and they still hold onto this guilt and it's been 20 years. I do not hold it against them for not knowing. I had parents who were always with us or at least didn't leave us alone for long periods of time with anyone. It doesn't take too long to sexually assault someone. I didn't show any emotion either. When someone is hurting you and you don't know why, you kind of just shut down and kill it inside of you so that you don't hurt anymore. The child is probably repressing the memory or maybe she'll never remember it. I hope for her sake, she doesn't. As for him..... words cannot aren't enough to describe the sick feeling I get when I read about people like this.

Answer 5

Muslimah, I cannot wrap my head around this. I have two little ones 22 months and 6 months and I too would hate to think what I would be capable of had this happened to one of mine as well. Vile filth like this make me ill. What is wrong with our world when things like this happen? I too wonder why this mother didnt suspect anything. Of course, its easy for us to judge from the outside, but I cant imagine not being clued in to something. Why was she alone with him for a full 30 minutes, was he babysitting her and if so, why? Im a stay at home mom too, for the same reasons. My mom and husband are the only others ones that watch mine as well. We have to keep our babies close!

Answer 6

My daughter was molested at the age of 7 by a "friend". I vowed to kill him, my girl needed me on the outside to raise her and be there for her. I singlehandedly raised her and the monster will get his.

That mother of the poor little girl knew, that child was raised for just that purpose. He will go to prison and some other con will kill him. like Dahmer. Her mother needs to go in as well and not come out alive. No you are not alone, there are millions of us who would love to put it to him in ways that cannot be mentioned in this youth friendly forum. There are bad people as well that want to get their hands them. I hope that sweet little girl some how gets her love of life back, her youth and innocense are gone forever, we need to be happy that she did not end up like so many other very young victims in a box in a shallow grave somewhere. Pedophiles should instantly be put to death by way of the parents of the victim or some other brutal fashion. I am all about forgiveness, EXCEPT for things like this, what could possibly be attractive about a sexless child. Another symptom of a sick society.

Not everyone can afford to stay at home full time, I was a single mom, they were the Apartment managers. Dont be angry at those of us who have to leave the home for our survival, dare not judge those of us who dont have the $ to be stay at homes. I envy you and wish it could have been so for me...

I looked into that childs eyes, she has seen more horror than you can dream, like I said, I feel to my core that she was bred and raised for what that monster and probably others have done to her, that is why she didnt struggle or cry out. Lets hope she can be rescued and regain her humanity

Answer 7

Yeap, and this is exactly why I am all for the death penalty. People like that should be executed. Sometimes a good old fashion rope and a tree can do the trick.... No need for electric chairs or lethal injections, just lynch the monster.

And you know, if I had children I would be like you, I would not entrust their care to a "friend of the family" or to a daycare, I would stay at home and take care of them myself, like my mom did with me.

Answer 8

I don't really want to kill him, just hurt him really really bad. I'd rather see him rott in prison for the rest of his life than just die and get the easy way out. I seriously can't believe anyone could do that to a child. I mean, what the hell was he thinking??? Hopefully she will not remember what happened, and if she does, hopefully it will be very blurry. Most people don't remember what happened in their lives when they were 3, but unfortunetely, something like this has a good chance of sticking in her mind for the rest of her life. I hope to God it doesn't. This little girl will definetely be in my prayers!

Answer 9

You are absolutely right! If someone ever hurt my daughter, he had better turn his @ss into Protective Custody ASAP before I get to him. I WILL KILL HIM IN COLD BLOOD! And hope I can catch him where I can lock him up, tie him up and torture him for a few days before I kill him. The only regret that I would ever have is the Deputies or Policemen I have to hurt to get to him. And when it's my turn to go to the death chamber and get the needle for what I have done, I'll smile all the way. When I stand before God, I will ask him why! just why did he allow evil to come to our innocent children? Watch the movie, "A Time to Kill" staring Samual Jackson. It's really really good and on point!

Answer 10

You're not the only one.

I have 4 daughters. The youngest is 3.

The things I would do to someone who perpetrated such an act on my daughters would make the Marquis de Sade vomit.

Answer 11

I say that he needs to be turned over to the family, and if anything is left of him after they are done, then prosecute him, and put him in the general population of the prison.

He'll not be a drain on society for long.

You being offended by this has notthing to do with your religion - what he did was an atrocity to any caring, loving, rational person.