I've been been with my boyfriend for a month and we haven't kissed and I'd really like to have that first kiss. I don't think he's shy because we've broken the touch barrier and we're comfortable. Is there a way I can hint for him to kiss me? Or should I just initiate the first kiss? Mind you this would be my first kiss ever. Do guys like it when the girl is first to initiate these kinds of things like kissing and such?
Thanks :)
2007-09-28 17:23:21 · 6 answers · asked by emo_afi_forever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to the person who asked we're both 16
2007-09-28 17:52:42 · update #1
hahaha i was the exact same way with my girlfriend who i've now been with for three years. she eventually made up a song about how i hadn't yet and would hum it when she wanted to be kissed, worked pretty well fo us i'd say.
2007-09-28 17:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by hiller128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just position yourself well during one of the dates. You should hold him so tight that his body will react, it would be automatic that the two of you will be craving for more than just holding hands. Wait till he touches you at some spot, act weird and kiss him passionately; say sorry thereafter and tell him he touched you at a sensitive spot and you could'nt control yourself. he will think he tempted you while you know it was well planned.
2016-04-06 06:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face him, look into his eyes, touch one hand lightly to his chest, touch his cheek lightly with the other hand and lean in no more than half way and wait, looking into his eyes for 10 seconds. If he doesn't finish the lean and kiss you, gently pull his face toward yours and do it yourself. If he pulls away, he's not ready. Wait a week or two or three and try again.
2007-09-28 17:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by Dan H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I bet he would love for you to kiss him. He's probably too shy to make that big move. At some point you'll be looking at him and you'll think "I could kiss him right now." And then instead of thinking about it, just do it.
2007-09-28 17:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Julie L 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
when I was dating, I had to initiate the first kiss (wasn't my first kiss ever, but still). It was electrifying and wonderful. He enjoyed it because he didn't know when the "right time" was and I enjoyed it because it shocked him.
2007-09-28 17:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by CJ P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hurry. how old r u? some people just like to hug, u may be better as friends. U probabl;y have acrush on him.
2007-09-28 17:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋