Okay, I'm new to the whole dating thing... And I want to ask a girl who I like - and I think she likes me - to the movies. How should I ask?
Ah, middleschool romance. Completely reaks, but unavoidable.
2007-09-28 16:48:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first off, ask her (nicely) if she has any plans to do anything over the weekend. If she has, try again next week. If she doesn't have any, then tell her something like "So there's this new movie out, have you seen it?" If she has, tell her you're planning to watch it and ask her opinion of the movie (girls like it when you ask their opinion), then ask her if there is a movie she hasn't watched. If she hasn't watch it, (then we're in business), move in for the kill (you know what I mean) "You know, I'm planning to watch that movie this Saturday, so if you've got nothing to do, well, we could watch it together?"
If she says yes, don't leap with joy. Just smile and say "Nice! Pick you up at eight?" If she refuses, don't insist or plead with her.
2007-09-28 16:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by N.M.M.P.P.I. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hey wanna go to the movies 2day? or pass her a note but i think asking is better because then you dont have to worry if she doesnt write back ;]. And if you dont know her phone number be like call me later and tell me =]
2007-09-28 23:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by *Confused*=/ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send it in the mail as a formal invite make a pop up card
is she old enough to go w/o parental consent?if not send the invite to parents too
here is what they ought to look like
parents :In order to take your daughter to the movies I may need to win your stamp of approval
here are the reasons you should give her permission to go to the movies with me (if SHE accepts)
I will be taking picking her up at ______
we will be seeing _________ it is rated ___ for_____
she will be able to get anything she wants tohave until my ____dollars runs out
she will be taken to the movie in ___________
a very safe _________
she will not be mauled or hit on I am interested in winning her respect and friendship and though of course I find her very attractive it is not my intention to cheapen my self by acting like a _______
she will be getting out of the movie at _____ and we will go__________she will be home by _______
I am a great guy I have a ____grade average I like______ -
---------- and talking to your daughter and laughing with her
I am _____years old and I plan to take my relationship with your daughter seriously but slow
I think she is going to have a great time and I hope you will let her go ouy with me thank you for your time
her;
pop up card--take two sheets of paperfold the top one in half and on the outside render or paste from picture th image of a movie theater just curtains dark silloettes from the back and the words ( your name) requests
take the other piecr of paper and fold in half
at crease cut two small slots about 3inches apart and 4 inches long open paper and re fold the part you cut so that it alone folds inside when the paper is closed
it should open up to reveal a 3d object that can be any number of things
the front view of a car
a desk
2movie theater seats
a conncession stand
etc etc
you can make any pop up form you want as long as the shape you cut is still attached to the card and you sonly cut the sides
fold it inward to have it pop out at you and pencil in the rest of a picture around the object
its simple its origional its so origional its sexy and funny
and makes you look very smart
good luck
2007-09-29 00:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by aubry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flattery always works well. Because you are interested that will most likely be enough.
but if you need to, a great starter is to complement her on something such as: I think you have the best ( laugh, smile, eyes) and would you like to...
do not complement her on her sweater kittens. And go light on the aftershave.
2007-09-28 23:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by greybeads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask if she would like to go with you someday. i remember the first girl i asked to go to the movies. it was the most nerve racking thing i have ever done, but she said yes so things worked out. the only thing is that when you go to the movies you can't talk very much so maybe find another fun thing that you guys can do. ask her out for sure though if you like her, things will work out.
2007-09-28 23:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, there's a great movie playing at the Stardust this weekend. (Name the movie) Would you like to go to the x:00 o'clock showing with me?
2007-09-28 23:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dan H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
first somehow find out if she can date. then just invite some other people to the movies with you, some buds and their girls and ask her to go with you AND THE GROUP!
2007-09-28 23:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by piratechic67x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahah, okay just be like so what are you doing sat. and she will most likely say nothin. then be like well do you want to hang out? and i am pretty sure that she will say yes
2007-09-28 23:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree...go with a gorup first n become tight with her
2007-09-28 23:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theirs this movie i want to see,,,,,, would you like to go with me?
2007-09-28 23:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by RoHo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋