Its funny..sometimes I ask my boyfriend for something he tells me he doesnt have money or he is broke.But he gets me stuff all the same but this is at his own time, when he wants to get me something, but when i ask for it..i hear a different story...I dont really hear "Yes I will get it for u"straight away, he always says i'll try or if only i get it, stuff like that. I feel like he prefers to get me stuff at his on time..than when i ask him.Is that a good sign..
2007-09-28 12:27:03 · 17 answers · asked by Denise 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just dont want it to seem like your using him for his money..and he dont want you to think that you can get whatever you want with him
2007-09-28 12:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be broke at the time you ask and then makes up for it at a later time.
The question I have is why is he suppose to buy you what you want....?
If you want something earn some money and buy it for yourself. It feels really good to provide for yourself trust me.
2007-09-28 19:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by suigeneris-impetus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what kind of things you're asking for, but I don't think there's anything wrong with how he acts. Sounds like when he buys you things, he's buying them because he wants to, from his heart. It's different when you say, "Buy this for me." I wouldn't want to buy gifts for someone who was always asking for something else. Just because he's your boyfriend doesn't mean he's obligated to buy you things you want. Gifts are expected for special occasions, but he's not required to get you other things that you just happen to want.
2007-09-28 19:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren Em 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want your boyfriend to supply you with things? Maybe he is relatively broke. Since, it is relative. Even rich people are broke if their bills out pace there income.
Don't give him the incentive to "lose" one of his expenses.
Gifts should come from the heart not guilt trips or begging.
2007-09-28 19:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by 354gr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, your arms and legs aren't broke. Get a job and buy your own stuff, instead of depending on a man to buy you things. Silly little girl.....
2007-09-28 19:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'LL TELL YOU WHAT IT MEANS. HE'S A NO GOOD CHEAP SON OF A ---bbbbbbbbb.I had a guy like that, he never had money, so one day i snooped around in his wallet and guess what, I KNEW HE WAS A DAMN LIAR,I kicked him to the curb.
2007-09-28 19:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he doesn't want to give you his money or he is trying to save his money to get you something nice to wear. like a neckless or a ring or probablay some earring
2007-09-28 19:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by sharde k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's a very bad sigh...for HIM. If you're always aking him to buy you things, he better start considering why it is you're with him. He shouldn't be cheap, but he shouldn't have to buy your affection either.
2007-09-28 19:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by karate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he has priorities and when he can, he makes room for what you want. Stop being so self centered. He's doing what he can. Recognize. Geez!!
2007-09-28 19:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by sustasue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good sign for him, its a clear sign to you though... and the sign reads GET A JOB.
2007-09-28 19:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jason 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋