okay i just asked how to stop it but i really didnt get the response i needed. Shes 7 years old and chews on her tongue especially when shes concentrating. She started doing at about age 1. But what i didnt mention is that i thought she would grow out of it thats why i left it alone for so long. but it has gotten worse. She now does it more constantly and now she even tries to speak while doing it. It has gotten substantially worse instead of better. I need advice on how to try to stop it. thanx for any help.
2007-09-28 11:38:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I know this sounds weird but her grandmother does it too. possibly hereditary?
2007-09-28 11:44:15 · update #1
ive tried reminding her millions of times and everytime i see her doing it (all day) and nothing works!!!
2007-09-28 11:54:48 · update #2
hereditary? Why yes. my two year old does it, I do it, my dad does it, my grandma did it, cousins, aunts, uncles, ect..
Like any inborn habit it likely won't ever stop but you can help her do it less often esp. NEVER while talking. Make up a sign (so you don't have to yell in public) that means stop biting your tongue like an ok hand sign or snapping your fingers.
2007-09-28 19:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by M G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she in public schools? They have school counselors there, free to you, that she can go see daily or weekly or whatever. Call the school, find out the steps, write the teacher, set it up. The Counselors listen to the children, offer advice if asked for it, and give them the tools to deal with life that are better than the one's they have thought of before. I know this first-hand from my daughter going to the school counselor.
I had a compulsive habit too at a young age. It's how kids manage stress in their environment/home/school life. Something big is eating at her and she's literally "eating" at herself in response. In my caes it was tension in the home and I was very self-critical. I eventually outgrew my habits (opening mouth as wide as I could, saying a word over and over and sucking my thumb way late) and by middle school was more worried about friends than valuing my habits. Each of my habits helped me cope and relieve stress though, which is why I had them for a habit to begin with.
I do not think you can personally stop her, but leting her talk to a professional will work wonders! Please, just give it a shot.
If she was mine I'd get her in to see someone or at least see the school counselor and I'd do it today.
2007-09-28 11:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with previous responders that this needs professional help. This is a habit that started to help her concentrate and will take many soft reminders to stop. A professional can guide you in helping her and make the processes easier for the both of you.
2007-09-28 11:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by pegassist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's no longer a undesirable habit, it is going to likely be a habit that some circumstances you like did no longer take place. one factor you may desire to do is set up a relatives nighttime whilst toddler gets older. that's what I did. Friday & Saturday are relatives nighttime. On Sunday your toddler will beg you to enable her stay on your mattress. merely reminder her basically (what proportion greater days until friday) and then she will come. It has worked for me and that i'm hoping it is going to artwork for you! good success and God Bless!
2016-10-09 23:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it was comforting for her in the beginning....like a child and his/hers blanket....but, has turned into a bad habit. She is use to doing it and dosen't now that it's a habit. You need to discuss this issue with her pediatrician....they can give you advice on how to stop it or send your daughter to a specialist. I really do not think there is anything that you can do by yourself to get your child to stop....so, please seek medical advice!!!
2007-09-28 11:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a nervous twitch or a dependancy of tongue biting that eases her anxiety. she keeps it up b/c she knows that she can not interact properly and be expected to act like a 7 yr old.
i think a pediatrician can help you with this concern and why its happening. definately anxiety related. ask her if anything is happening or what she is feeling. it will resolve itself.
2007-09-28 11:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by dot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get an opinion from your doctor about this habit. Your child may need professional help to stop this behavior.
2007-09-28 11:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried ignoring the behavior? Does your daughter even realize that she is doing it? I think I would take this up w/ your pediatrician.
2007-09-28 12:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter requires professional help and guidance about this matter. You should take her to the doctor.
2007-09-28 11:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by Richard B 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should consult a professional on this matter. She might have a nervous condition.
2007-09-28 11:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by qυєєи of му cαsтlє ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋