2007-09-28 11:37:33 · 29 answers · asked by alwhip.1234 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If the problem is with attendance, you need to look at what is making it so hard for you to show up. If you don't like the people there, find a different ward. If you're having a hard time believing it, study our basic texts, the Book of Mormon and the Bible. You also need to pray about it, and it might not hurt to have a heart-to-heart with your bishop or a trusted fellow member. Don't just throw the church away, give it a chance, and you'll learn what it is you need to do.
2007-09-28 11:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 1⤋
You might want a few more LDS views on this too...lol. You seem to be getting a lot of anti/non-memeber answers...:).
You know, I think that we all do at one point or another. I think one of the hardest things to remember is that we don't have just a religion, but a complete lifestyle. It's hard to keep goign those Sunday mornings when you just want to sleep in. I have a hard tome with that one a lot, especially since I don't have anyone waking me up in the mornings to get me there like a parent. It's hard, I think the fact that it's hard is the point though. Look at Job, he hadtrials that none of us could even imagine, and it wasn't becasue he believed the wrong thing, it wasn't because he was being punished, but because he was so rightouse, and need to be tested to gain even more faith.
THe simple Primary answers are read your scriptures, fast, pray, talk with friends there, maybe your Bishop or hometeachers. It's amazing how they can help.
I'm not sure what else to say considering you didn't go into much detail, which no one expects you too, but just remember how much heavenly Father loves you. You ARE a child of God. He loves you so much. You are an amazing person, who has probably overcome a lot, and will as time goes by over come more.
Remember, the scriptures say..."And it came to pass." No where does it say, "And it came to stay" Be paitent, and things will end up working out.
You are loved.
2007-09-29 20:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Are you having a hard time with your church calling? Or maybe the lack of a calling? I know I've struggled with going to church when I'm struggling in my calling, but I know it's the right thing to do, to go to church.. Especiallu sacrament mtg, because that's the most important part of church to me, taking the sacrament to renew our baptismal covenants. Talk to your Bishop or Branch President, or your visiting teachers. And hang in there, it'll get better and you'll be blessed for being stalwart and obedient to the commandments. If you have questions or just need to talk, feel free to email me. I'm a life long member that's had many different callings and am also an RM, so I hope I can help!
2007-09-30 15:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by latterdaylady 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey Monkiegrl127,
It might be that you aren't asking the right question due to erroneous underlying assumptions.
Perhaps you should ask yourself, "Would I be okay if I didn't go?" or "What would happen if I discovered that it wasn't the only true church?" You may decide that it's not the true church but remain active because you enjoy other aspects. That's okay. Sometimes there's a deeper question we need to get to when we can't seem to put our finger on the answer to our superficial questions.
I tried to apply the same antidotes that have been suggested by all the faithful here for many years and it just wasn't bringing me happiness. I tried to convince myself that I was content but what I lacked was the freedom to express my concerns and doubts without being judged by those around me. If you want to be yourself but you're afraid of what others might think then maybe you're not in the right community. Good luck.
2007-10-02 00:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by jungle84025 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think a true testimony is hard to attain without at some point in time having doubts. Only those who really want to know 100% without a doubt will go searching. I had plenty of doubts having grown up inactive. Searching for answers to those doubts turned into strengthening experiences. I find that if I read the scriptures and pray everyday, I can handle what ever comes my way, even if life is not easy. If I miss a few days, it gets tough. My advice is to do those things, and if you feel like you really need help from someone, talk to your bishop. Bishops generally know that someone is having a hard time with something even without the person saying anything. Trust me on that one. First hand experience.
2007-09-30 13:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by JBM 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is your problem with the church, the people, the doctrine or something else? To me it sounds like something is working on you to not go. That's when you must go. There is the old saying that if you don't feel like praying, that's when you really need to.
Don't let Satan win! The church is true and will help you. Talk to your Bishop if you feel like you can.
I understand having a problem. About 16 years ago my family was having a major problem that was well known. People didn't know how to react to us so we were ignored and it hurt. We know that there is the "Church" and then there's people. The Church is true and people can be jerks!!!
2007-09-29 11:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I'm just becoming active again after being "away" for several years. Yes it is hard to go when you have a hard time going. Like another person mentioned have a chat with your Bishop or another leader. Cultivate friendships with others your age and similar circumstances.
I have 2 children to keep still during Sacrament meeting. What works for me is I have my oldest find and read, silently, the scriptures that are quoted. I also open my scriptures and sometimes sit and read them when the talks get too boring ;) For my little one a coloring book or plain notebook and crayons are the best items in my bag.
Remember it's only 3 hours and then you're done.
But seriously talk to someone.
2007-09-28 21:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Heather R 5 · 11⤊ 1⤋
One of my friends has also had a hard time going to church. What she did, was look at the basic doctrine. She started reading her scriptures and praying everyday. She told me (and I agree) that it is hard to get into something, or even know if it is true if you are not living it. Once she started doing those things again, she had a much easier time coming to church and actually looked forward to it. Good luck!
2007-09-28 20:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Leisha L 2 · 10⤊ 1⤋
What, specifically are you having a hard time with?
Myself, I have two little children and have a really hard time keeping them quiet during Sacrament Meeting. I have found that snacks are not just a good idea, they are the law! Of course, then we have to share with all the other little kids in the chapel, but that's okay!
We have a couple of callings each and that's hard. We just do our best and expect class participation.
What, specifically is the problem?
2007-09-28 18:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by Fotomama 5 · 9⤊ 1⤋
Dont let anything come between you and the church. The church is perfect the people are not.
2007-09-29 21:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by james b 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋