I am quite confused as to why my boyfriend would tell me numerous times of the dreams he has of me cheating on him. He has been doing this recently and it kind of is weird to me? Could he be insecure with our relationship? Or is he himself cheating on me and disguising his dreams as a way to take him out of the hotseat, if that makes any sense. Well let me know. And also, how should I respond when he tells me about this? I kind of just dont say anything...
2007-09-28 10:23:21 · 16 answers · asked by ITALIAN7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might be a trust issue with him ... I know with my ex husband I use to dream about that all the time ... I knew I wanted out of our relationship and I think it was my mind playing tricks - making me hate him more and more everyday - I would feel so hurt when I woke up - sounds funny but my dreams where so detailed it was scary ... sit down with him and have a serious talk ... he might just need security ... good luck ... !
2007-09-28 10:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably trying to make you feel guilty,just incase you have been cheating and he wants you to think that he is clairvoyant.This also means that he is a bit insecure in the relationship,which is natural especially if he feels your too good for him.Wht you should do is;reassure him and let him know that you have no intention of cheating on him and that you are quite happy with him.And tell him those dreams are silly anyway and he should stop taking them seriously.
2007-09-28 10:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by babyface miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he probably wonders if you're cheating. Its easier to say I had a dream because who can help what they dream right?
He doesn't want to take responsibility for the consequences of coming out and asking right out so he hides behind, " I keep having these dreams..." Am i right? Obviously, hes insecure in the relationship and there are things you can do within reason to breach that gap unless he's nuts then there is nothing you can do.
2007-09-28 10:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by John D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know how you feel. If you're mature enough to be in a relationship then you should be mature enough to talk to your partner. I just hope he's not one of those guys you find out later that has some kind of mental problem. If he is doing this more and more frequently he may actually be starting to believe this and if so you should be really careful and watch his mood when he talks to you about it because if he begins to get angry i would end the relationship and definitely watch my back. Some people are just really insecure and if that's o.k. with you then best of luck!
2007-09-28 10:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by dollbabyii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 12:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by raj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best guess is he is insecure.
Or has a guilty conscience.
Take measures to find out.
You must reassure him that you are not cheating and ask him if it is because he has anything he needs to tell you.
Maybe he doesn't want to be in the relationship and this is the only way he could think of to get the dialogue started.
Or maybe he really is scared that you will cheat on him and he needs reassurance that you aren't and won't.
2007-09-28 10:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by Doodles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he thinks you'd cheat on him. He should answer that, and if he doesn't after some prodding say that he's INSECURE for whatever reason, then there are a couple of OTHER options:
1. History of women in his family who cheat(ed)
2. Previous galpal that cheated on him
3. He subconsciously wants to cheat on you and in his dreams he's finding a rationale.
My guess is that its not #3, but it could be. That's called transferance I think.
2007-09-28 10:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by Petunia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is the cheating on you with in his dreams? Are they actually dreams? Or a cover up for what's realisticly taking place behind your back? What are you doing to make him think of this cheating? No physicality from either of you? Don't say anything? Um, why? Letting time slide by not saying anything is just a showing of how weak you are in confronting this filler sh!t!
2007-09-28 10:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shoud mos def talk to him about it, not a guarantee he'll tell u the truth but its worth a try. Thats kinda weird for him to keep having a dream like that, personally i dont believe it but just reassure him u would never do that, if he still talks about it, prolly is a disguise..
2007-09-28 10:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that some1 might have told him something and he is worried that u might be cheating on u and is scared to lose u. i think he might just be trying to find a way to make sure u arent cheating on him (if u arent). hope this helps :)
2007-09-28 10:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by Avery 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋