i still love her even more than before, does she feel the same for me? will she still love me like before? because i want to marry her, pls help with this answer. thanks
2007-09-28 07:40:48 · 25 answers · asked by me2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Idiot troll.
2007-09-28 14:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by xanadu88 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Very poor decision in both of your lives. First, abortion is wrong. Second, your girlfriend should not get pregnant for anyone but herself and because she wants to have a devote her life to having a child. Third, no one on Yahoo wedding section can tell you if your girlfriend loves you, how she feels, if she wants to marry you. My guess is if she still stuck around with you after making a horrible mistake then the odds are she still has some sort of feelings for you.
My advise to you is to ask her how she feels about you and use protection when you have sex. You don't seem mature enough to me to be having babies. Nor do I feel that people who abort a baby should even be given the right to have babies at all.
2007-09-28 11:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Wedding Planner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that must have been a very tough decision to make...terminating the life of your unborn child....it does def put a huge stress on the relationship..especially for her...was this an equal decision? u both need to talk to eachother about your feelings b/c i am sure it is eating u both alive. it will take time to overcome this but if u are meant to be together then it will eventually work out. But u will never completely get over this and u will always wonder what life would have been like if u did not decide to terminate the baby's life
2007-09-28 07:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by Pixie311 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I believe in having a choice over your own body. I am pro-choice, even if it is not a choice I would make for myself. However, if your girlfriend had your support in this, she was not alone or underage, why choose abortion? Why not adoption? Give the child a chance to have a happy home?
Everyone I've talked to who has had an abortion regretted it at some point. I'm sorry, but if I were your girlfriend, No, I would not feel the same for you...you two chose to terminate a life you created together. That could put a permanent wedge between you, over time.
~Kat
2007-09-28 07:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 5 · 10⤊ 1⤋
whose decision was it to have an abortion? How far along was she? Did you not want it and she did? In that case she may resent you. But if you wanted it and she didn't, you may come to resent her. In both cases, your love is probably doomed. But if you both wanted to have the abortion, than maybe you have a chance in staying together. Though use a freakin' condom if you don't want kids. And make her go on birth control. Its pretty irrasponsible to get knocked up in the first place and not want it.
2007-09-28 09:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i don't understand half of your question. you knocked your gf up, aborted the baby and now you want to marry her? then why didn't she keep the baby if you all want to get married? I think in time she'll resent you for not wanting the baby. Who's decision was it to abort the baby? Did she want to keep it and you convinced her it would be better to abort it? There are so many variables in this question to provide you with any kind of answer.
2007-09-28 09:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by musicgrl42002 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am pro choice but I can assure you that if you and your girl friend go through with what you are planning your relationship will never be the same again and probably fail. By the way I am disgusted with your use of the term "remove it" are you too much of a coward to use the correct terms such as "terminate the pregnancy" or "have an abortion."
2007-09-28 08:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by whyme? 5 · 6⤊ 3⤋
If she got pregnant for you but you two then decided to abort than she probably won't feel the same. It's something where time will tell. If you want to marry her so badly, why haven't you asked her to marry you?
2007-09-28 09:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Manny 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Such lovely grammar. I almost understood that.
I hear the Christmas song, Deck the Halls
Troll a lah, lah lah....
2007-09-28 10:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How are we supposed to tell you how she feels about this. You need to ask her! From the people that I have talked to...they usually are never the same and neither is their relationship with that person.
*Do you realize how many people out there cannot have children...and then there are people like you that can, and for some reason (that I will NEVER understand) you make the decision to terminate your baby's life. You ended your baby's life before it could tell you that it wanted to live. What if your mother choseto "terminate" your life?
2007-09-28 08:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by betney109 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
That was your choice at the time. Now I think you should just really talk to her about it. Everyone is going to feel and handle the situation differently, so I can't tell you how she feels. Neither can anyone else. Sit down and have a serious talk about it. Good luck!
2007-09-28 07:49:24 · answer #11 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋