i thought i can trust this guy,but then he did something which upset me this time and i don't know why,he kind of betray me like taking my stuff from me even i helped him,but why he does this?when i confronted him he said that stuff was someone s one....but why he does that?he is also my co worker.he sometimes gets me puzzled plus he is ,y co worker what can i do?why is it that when i need his help he doesn want...and i felt is hard to gets someones help like i have done somehting wrwrong with them?sometinms i dont know what they want form me...why is God always making meet people like this?i always figure out ...whyca nt i meet someone who understands me..it is always people opposite me i dont know why?why god deso this to me?
2007-09-28 06:52:28 · 10 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
There is two ways you can look at this.
1. It is a test from God. You need to persevere.
2. Stop living your life as if it's real. You'll enjoy it more.
2007-09-28 07:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... where to start... First, I'm sorry this may be harsh, LEARN HOW TO SPELL AND USE PROPER GRAMMAR!! reading your question was like trying to listen to a 5 year old interpretation of Hamlet. Second, Find the right place to post this question. your looking for relationship advice. this is religion and spirituality. Third, some people are just not willing to be there for others. If this is the type of people you are constantly getting consider this. Each guy you date is a completely different person. if you have gone through multiple guys and keep running into the same problem figure out what the one constant is between all of them. YOU. are you looking in the same place for guys? do you look for your next boyfriend with the same criteria you looked for your last? are you just hard to get along with? I don't know you I cannot answer any of these questions for you. "god" did not make people opposite you.?(not quite sure what that means) and he does not do that to you. you do it to you. if you keep making yourself the victim you are going to stay the victim. stop blaming someone else for your own downfalls.
2007-09-28 14:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lorena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You choose who you meet not God, Plus You are the one letting them do it, Stop being a Door mat, and stand up for your self, Don't just except the answer that it is someone Else's, if you know it isn't true. Grow a back Bone sweety, or you will get hurt a lot.
2007-09-28 13:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by pukeypie89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God doesn't make you do anything.
You have free will.
It almost sounds like you work in a kindergarten class.
(Though I found middle or high-schoolers just as immature...)
If you don't know why people seem to be treating you so badly, ask yourself how you are treating others? Be honest with yourself.
Then, get another job.
I pray God gets you out of your mess.
Amen.
2007-09-28 14:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by C Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been a victim your whole life?
You need to stand up for yourself. Nobody likes a spineless person. If he ends up not liking you, so be it.
2007-09-28 13:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have a serious problem. Its called poor spelling & grammer. Maybe you should go back to school.
2007-09-28 13:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Keltasia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you learned to construct a coherent question you might be more lucky in love. It har d t under stand peple somtinms whan yu can t red wat the y riting, rite?
2007-09-28 13:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by TubThumpin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are just what they are. It is your own expectations or ideas about them that conflict with reality.
2007-09-28 13:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you take English in School...
2007-09-28 13:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by babo1dm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no god.
Stop whining and start taking responsibility for your actions.
And learn how to spell.
2007-09-28 13:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋