He is allowed to talk with his kinda x gf, he deletes all of her profiles and then most recently we don't get along and he re-added her on yahoo msgr and didn't tell me. I was questioning him about it. He is mad when my x husband from another country is on my profiles now. I also am allowed to a degree. Is it not fair if he can do it shouldn't I be able too? Sounds childish I know but this is a real issue and need your outlook, opinions, comments please. I will show him what you all say on this issue today. BE NICE! no crappy comments please. Thanks.
2007-09-28 06:32:33 · 5 answers · asked by MOM OF ONE 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The two of you need to sit down and draw up some ground rules about what sort of communications are appropriate with your ex's. Both of you need to agree on them, and they should be the same for both of you. So either you both can have them on your list or not. Same with content
2007-09-28 07:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Movie Mom what is good for the goose is indeed good for the gander. If you are two mature individuals who don't have any trust issues than should not be problematic. If however, either of you are actually flirting with or attempting to excite the exes on-line than I would suggest that this will eventually create large problems within your relationship. If you can talk with the exes and be civil and friendly, providing these communications happen only now and again should not be a problem., But if either of you is spending too much talking with them then it would make people question why they are exes. Best of luck to you both in trying to overcome this probem and come to a compromise.
2007-09-28 13:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you needs to let go of the past
& stop talking to your exs
2007-09-28 13:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if these ex's are ruining your relationship, you should dump both of them. If your boyfriend doesn't care that you have a problem with it, then maybe you should dump him.
2007-09-28 13:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by Hopethishelps! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you guys jealous of? Sounds like you guys don't trust each other.
2007-09-28 13:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋